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15-11-2016 07:07 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
Hi @Shaz51!
Welcome and thanks for joining us 🙂
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15-11-2016 07:09 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
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15-11-2016 07:12 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
Hi @2angels
Thanks for joining us tonight, it is great to hear from you.
It really depends what State in Australia you live in.If you live in VIC there are several public options (WA there are 2, SA there is 1) in the other states it is tricker if you don't have private health insurance with psychiatric cover. As you say though, all located in majoy cities.
When we can't access MBU beds we work with local services from Psychiatric triage to emergency departments and GPs to advocate for families to be provided with mental health assessment and care taking into account pregnancy or a new baby.
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15-11-2016 07:12 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
It weighs on me at times but I feel that I need to stay strong for my daughter. Sorry for the essay, hope it makes sense. @PANDA
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15-11-2016 07:15 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
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15-11-2016 07:17 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
Hi @Newmama, congratulations on your little one, and thanks so much for sharing.
It sounds like it has been quite hard for you to hear that your partner has been feeling left out, and that she can't enjoy the time you have together when you do... You must be really wanting to connect with your partner at this time.
It takes time for each person to adjust to parenthood, and the reactions of each parent can differ so much. Have you been able to have a conversation with your partner about how she is feeling and what you need at this time?
I think seeing your GP and linking in with some perinatal focused therapy via a mental health care plan sounds like a wonderful first step. If you are wondering whether you are experiencing some perinatal anxiety, the GP is a really great place to start. It can be helpful to make a list of your symptoms and how long they have been happening for before you go, and get the most out of your appointment.
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15-11-2016 07:20 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
It certainly does make sense @Pocoyo. I can hear and feel how lonely and exhausting it is to not have any expectations, make every effort not to 'put him in a bad mood' and take on the full weight of wanting to 'stay strong for your daughter'.
Relationship challenges are a common (yet very painful) outcome of persistent perinatal anxiety and depression. No one is a winner really when this happens.
I wonder if you ever feel unsafe in your relationship @Pocoyo?
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15-11-2016 07:23 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
It sounds like you have been through so much, @2angels.
I can only imagine the impact these experiences had on the beginning of your parenthood journey.
Have you been able to talk to someone about this since?
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15-11-2016 07:24 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT
No, I never feel unsafe in my relationship just insecure and unappreciated/unloved