19-11-2025 02:43 PM
19-11-2025 02:43 PM
having people deny your truth is so awful. we're always here to listen, and importantly, we believe you 💙 @avant-garde
19-11-2025 02:54 PM
19-11-2025 02:54 PM
If today couldn't get any harder...
One of my neighbours came by with a support worker and social worker to ask me to take care of her cats over the weekend
TW: SI
I'm safe but quite overwhelmed just by seeing her
19-11-2025 04:43 PM
19-11-2025 04:43 PM
@avant-garde wrote:
Oh I have so many cute little bags from various sources!
From the kind you get on fancy flights with slippers
To gorgeous clutch type pouches from boutique clearance
And the drawstring bags you can get from the body shop
Along with more handbag style for various purposes
I have a lot of different toiletry bags and pencil cases simply for the versatility and size.
I actually use a pencil case for my travel cords
And I have a bag that is a fidget itself because it's just one long zip!
I love this!! 🤩 I saw a clutch-style bag walking past an op-shop today and thought of you! It was patent red with a pearl clasp and silver chain, very pretty. @avant-garde
How was seeing Jasmine? 💛
19-11-2025 05:57 PM
19-11-2025 05:57 PM
oh i'm sorry to hear how overwhelming it was, i'd feel quite uneasy if i had a surprise visit during a rough time too. glad you're safe, and please do continue to take things easy and be gentle 💙
19-11-2025 07:33 PM
19-11-2025 07:33 PM
I won 9 games of go fish and she won 2
I won't say it was great... it was good until this happened
19-11-2025 09:42 PM
19-11-2025 09:42 PM
@avant-garde haha I am sure she loved that (mostly) 😂
Gosh, this would have been so understandably triggering and vulnerable. It makes sense that you were flooded with so many thoughts and feelings...
What have you been doing to be there for yourself tonight? And is there anything specific you need from us? 💛
20-11-2025 01:40 PM
20-11-2025 01:40 PM
I watched tv, cleaned the toilet, listened to my audiobook and then eliminated 7 flies when I couldn't sleep.
My cat was thoroughly amused
20-11-2025 03:30 PM
20-11-2025 03:30 PM
hahah I am sure your cat was amused. 😂 @avant-garde
What audiobook are you listening to at the moment?
20-11-2025 03:47 PM
20-11-2025 03:47 PM
A Princess of Wind and Wave: a retelling of the Little Mermaid by Melanie Cellier
I just had therapy...
yesterday
I got super super angry at Bible study on Tuesday and I just need someone to vent to that is going to understand, knowing where I stand on this (which you and I have already discussed at various times)
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