not coping

[outlander]

no i like talking to you @tyme i like the chats that we have

[tyme]

Use that understanding about you enjoying our chats as a way to consider times when you haven't 'ruined' relationships. You have so much in you. In real life, I would hang around you any day because I recognise that it was your priorities that meant you sometimes you weren't available. Yet as humans, we all need to connect and belong. 

Hugs @outlander . We are here for you.

[outlander]

i feel very different on here then in life form @tyme i feel like i can think and speak better in written form then in life form.

i wouldnt want to be around me really but thank you for saying that.

[tyme]

I agree. Written is easier for me too. However, I found that written form can translate to spoken form once it's practiced enough @outlander 

[outlander]

maybe one day @tyme
i seem to do ok when i support other people just not when i need to support myself

[tyme]

You're not alone there @outlander 

Have you heard that doctors make the worst patients?? That's exactly why. It's easier to support others than it is to receive support ourselves. Me included.

[outlander]

that is true @tyme

[tyme]

Hugs @outlander . We don't all go by the same timeline. Don't compare yourself to others. 

In your time, you things will happen. That's one of the best things I've learnt. I used to spend hours comparing myself to others, esp when you look on social media.... now? meh? who cares?

Hugs. You mean a lot to us 🙂

I'm hopping offline now. See you in 2024!

[outlander]

thanks @tyme i hope you have a good night

[Eve7]

Sending lots of love @outlander 

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