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04-12-2022 10:05 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
Like me @creative_writer - I'm MORE than 'happy' to be alone. But why? Because I didn't seek to be happy living alone. I was satisfied before living alone. Otherwise, as far as I see it, no matter whether one is living along or not, they won't be content. Contentment comes from within? What do you think?
It took me a long time to accept that living a 'happy life all the time' is a myth. Life is a roller coaster. I've finally been able to accept that and re-frame my challenges as room for my personal growth.
This is my personal experience, and to this day, I cannot believe the change that has occurred in my thinking. It wasn't all that long ago that I stewed over similar thoughts as you. The more I stewed over them, the stronger they became.
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04-12-2022 10:10 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
I wish I could say so much more @creative_writer , but I think for tonight, can I just give you a hug? You've had a big day.
We can talk about it more later in the week?
Please take care, tyme
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05-12-2022 11:38 AM
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05-12-2022 12:05 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
Hi @creative_writer,
Sitting alongside you and hearing you. I am sorry you feel this way - it's sad to read you don't feel safe around people. I wish this wasn't the case for you. I hope you feel safe and cared for on the Forums. I know that many people on the Forums care about you very much.
Sending you hugs and understanding.
Warmest wishes,
FloatingFeather
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05-12-2022 03:15 PM
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05-12-2022 03:24 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
That's understandable @creative_writer . It's hard when people have done wrong by you - it's hard to trust again.
I hope you can take it easy after your assignments are all done ❤️
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05-12-2022 03:56 PM
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I hear you @creative_writer and understand what you are saying. Feeling safe doesn't come easy to me either and it does take time for me to trust. As you said it can take time to feel safe and it doesn't happen overnight so be kind to yourself around this.
Having an assignment hanging over your head when you aren't feeling great doesn't help either. Were you able to get it done? Would that mean that uni is done for the year?
You are doing great @creative_writer - you push through even when things are a lot for you. I hope you are proud of yourself because you should be ❤️
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05-12-2022 04:19 PM
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Re: Struggling: TW suicide
@FloatingFeather ❤️ I’ve got a lot to unpack and work on. Trying to open up in therapy more might be a good starting point. Just submitted the last assignment for this year. I had to drop from full time to part time, and got extensions for all my assignments this semester, but got there.
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05-12-2022 04:30 PM
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That's fantastic @creative_writer - you did get there in the end! I did a lot of my degree part-time, I don't think there is a right way or wrong way to do uni, just whatever works for you and your own needs.
I hope you are going to do something nice for yourself to celebrate that you just submitted your last assignment for the year 🙂
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