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[Fluttershy1]

Yep I did and it was yummy @Jynx - 

I feel switchy

[Jynx]

@Fluttershy1  a good time to grab your Switch then and play some games, right? 😝

But in all seriousness, I imagine some grounding might help. Music, munchies, pat the bunny, focus on the feeling of skin against whatever you're using to keep warm at present 💜

[Fluttershy1]

Night @Jynx - I fell asleep

[Fluttershy1]

Hey @BPDSurvivor @Captain24 @Snowie @oceangirl @Shaz51 @Oaktree @Eve7 @Judi9877 - hope you are all well. 

things have been abit like a roller coaster today

[Captain24]

With you @Fluttershy1 .

Sorry that’s all I’ve got. 

💕Captain24 

[oceangirl]

@Fluttershy1 How was your day? I'm ok- just a bit tired. 

[BPDSurvivor]

Hi @Fluttershy1 !

Sorry it’s taken me so long to reply.

I was thinking of you so thought I’d pop by to see how you are going.

With my BPD, I never lashed out AT my treating team. But I did lash out TO them.

I understood that whatever was happening in me doesn’t mean I can lash out at therapists - that makes their job harder to work with you. If I wanted help, I’d have to respect and honour those helping me.

With that in mind, I was actually very much ‘liked’ by my treating team. 

All in all, it worked for the good for both me and them. It was win-win.

Whatever it is, I believe there is no occasion or right for treating team to be disrespected. We are all human - it doesn’t mean they are perfect, but we need to also do the right thing.

Why I say this is because in my work, I see teachers being disrespected and abused everyday. Just because it is from students and parents, should they have the right? 

I put myself in pdoc’s point of view. Just because of their job, is it right they should cop disrespect?

Sorry for this long-winded response. But your question has really means a lot to me.

Hope you have a good evening,

BPDSurvivor

[Snowie]

Hi @Fluttershy1 

Hoping today has been a little better for you

💗💗

[Fluttershy1]

Hey @Snowie @BPDSurvivor @oceangirl @Captain24 @Jynx @Shaz51 @TAB @Historylover @Judi9877 - sorry for being so absent, I’ve had a lot on my plate 

here’s a photos of stitch 

 

[BPDSurvivor]

Hi @Fluttershy1 !

Great to see you! Thanks for the photo of Stitch! Tooo cute! It’s soooo chill and relaxed.

BPDSurvivor