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27 Feb 2024 08:44 PM
27 Feb 2024 08:44 PM
Re: Not Coping
lego but I don't have any money to buy any @Zoe7
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27 Feb 2024 08:45 PM
27 Feb 2024 08:45 PM
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So that is not an option @Birdofparadise8 What else can you all do together that does not cost anything?
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27 Feb 2024 08:46 PM
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27 Feb 2024 08:48 PM
27 Feb 2024 08:48 PM
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What are things you can all talk about then @Birdofparadise8 ? Can you organise a dinner or lunch to get together and get to know each other a bit more?
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27 Feb 2024 08:51 PM
27 Feb 2024 08:51 PM
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I have no clue. With one of them last week, we talked for four hours straight. I'm sure we can find something to talk about.
Yeah, well, there is a market on Sunday, so maybe we can go for a walk around there.
I'd have to ask them when they can do lunch. @Zoe7
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27 Feb 2024 08:55 PM
27 Feb 2024 08:55 PM
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They are all great ideas @Birdofparadise8 Maybe organising between the 3 of you a day/time you can 'book' in each week to do things together. That could be a lunch, a walk, the market to get food etc. Having that booked in time together you can also talk about things like chores, responsibilities, things you have in common and things you can do together.
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27 Feb 2024 09:00 PM
27 Feb 2024 09:00 PM
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Yes, I need to talk to them about cleaning. We have an inspection next week and I don't want to be doing it all. @Zoe7
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27 Feb 2024 09:04 PM
27 Feb 2024 09:04 PM
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Would be good to sit down and do a roster @Birdofparadise8 When everyone knows their roles and responsibilities, it is easier to stay on top of everything.
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27 Feb 2024 09:06 PM
27 Feb 2024 09:06 PM
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Yeah, that's what I'm planning. They both have been coming and going, so we all haven't been together until last week then I was sick with covid, so I stayed away from them, and so I will see if we can talk on Thursday @Zoe7
Anyway, we can move on from them if you like. Did you have work today?
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27 Feb 2024 09:09 PM
27 Feb 2024 09:09 PM
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Yes I work full time @Birdofparadise8 Have to head to bed now though as I am super tired and have to be at work a bit earlier tomorrow for a meeting. Catch you another time 🌞
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