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@Jynx  thank you! The NEW section on SANE website has been on the fritz for at least two weeks.

Not showing tagged posts. The same for @StuF and @TAB  🤷🏼‍♀️

Frustration overload 🤯

I only found your post by going to the Socials section.

Now I have found it, I can enjoy your memes collection 🤗

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Ach yeah this is a known issue @Glisten happening across the forums. I've flagged it so hopefully it'll get sorted soon. Glad you found it in the end!!

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@scruffypuffball @Alice10 @Jynx 

From Instagram 

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Inspirational and encouragement here..Alice.

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Looking forward to seeing your inspiring posts @Alice10 

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Thank you Glisten! 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

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@Captain24 

I LOVE this picture you posted 

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Hey 👋🏼 @scruffypuffball I was reading your Walking Away post 4 Feb 2024 - again.

I’m dealing with trauma responses. May and June was hanging on by my finger nails.

I thought I was ok-ish. Had no idea until I was amongst a group of people. How much I don’t want to be around people who don’t understand my needs.

It takes very millilitre of strength to tolerate when someone is talking at me too long 😖

Just grates on my nerves.

@Jynx What do you think? Is that not uncommon in my current mental state?

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Oh gosh @Glisten this must have gotten lost amongst the notifications debacle, I'm sorry I didn't see it till now 😓

 

That does sound like a pretty normal trauma-response to me hun, needing to mask and fake being ok, our threshhold for irritation during social interactions can be very low, and make us want to run/escape/hide. 

 

I think it's an astute observation that it is to do with those people not understanding your needs. If they were understanding, what would that look like? 

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@Jynx you're fine. Not your fault the Notification SNAFU.

If I’m typing an emotional forum post. I usually realise that I should be putting it in my journal.

But this time I needed emotional validation.

I’m getting antsy waiting for my lawyer to get a response from my ex-Narci.

I’m stuck in Freeze mode right now I don’t know how to pull myself out of it.

Any tips?

Maybe I should just go have a sauna?

👀 as she looks at paperwork all over the bed :face_with_rolling_eyes: and then stares at her phone. Ohmagrrd crapfest. 

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