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Life can be a Pain
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08 May 2017 05:43 PM
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09 May 2017 12:25 AM
09 May 2017 12:25 AM
Re: Life can be a Pain
Great pics @outlander
Thanks - I love them
I might have missed your pics thread - I have had so much mail I have not opened yet - I have been busy here and enjoying it - it has pulled me out of myself a few times - this is a rough time of year for me
But I would love to see those pics - if you have time to tag me now - I am just tidying up my place sitting here with you - and I will have that thorough shower tonight - eek - I could feel my skin crawl after half-a-shower - which is better than none
If you can sleep - that is good - but I am here for you right now
Dec
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09 May 2017 12:27 AM
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09 May 2017 12:30 AM
09 May 2017 12:30 AM
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Really cool - I can see them straight away then without hunting through days of mail
btw - my business mail goes to another address - it doesn't get lost here - which would be easy
Dec
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09 May 2017 12:32 AM
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09 May 2017 12:37 AM
09 May 2017 12:37 AM
Re: Life can be a Pain
Yes @Former-Member
It was a hard thing to do - the call I put through on Friday had been recorded - but the extra info about the washing just draped over the clothes line and my bed was a mess - the sheet and the blanket under the sheet were all wrinkly - I never did a crappy job like that myself - I would certainly not like to do it for anyone else
Anyway - I felt ill for a while - maybe my new idea of eating a decent meal today was replaced by fruit and bread rolls and soup - but I did eat - back to the vegetables and meat tomorrow
I felt so fragile after that call - and I really needed a shower but I had a good wash and I am about to shower now - but half-a-shower was enough - the dust mites will be all washed away in a long shower any minute now
I had a list of things to do - yikes - it's tomorrow and I have all these phone calls
Well - I can't do anything about them now
Dec
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09 May 2017 08:43 AM
09 May 2017 08:43 AM
Re: Life can be a Pain
I got an email with what you wrote but then deleted it.
I want you to know. Yes please make your thread and tag me if you like id love to read more and get to knw you.
What you wrote was very thoughtful and im sure many of us here can relate to those mother dramas and also the pain your dealing with.
Pleasr dont be afraid to post on here. Im sure the loveley @Owlunar @Former-Member @Shaz51 would also be able to give you some advice too.
And im also sure we can find people in your age bracket as well as we have quite a variety of ages on here. Im 20 btw. Again welcome welcome welcome to the forums 💙💙💙
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09 May 2017 09:04 AM
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09 May 2017 09:12 AM
09 May 2017 09:12 AM
Re: Life can be a Pain
hello @Owlunar
Yes I can well imagine that the day would have been draining.
Having to go over and over what originally upset you is not pleasant.
It is important and encouraging for you that you were able to stand up for your rights, despite how you have been feeling recently.
I do hope that apart from an apology they will give you an extra session. You are entitled to it in lieu of the awful experience.
the missed meal and replacement are nothing to be concerned about. You still ate. I had such a bad day on sunday, I came home, cooked a meal for my husband stating that my stomach was too churned up to eat. I then later proceeded to devour chocolate!! comfort food.
Shower as I said before for one day is neither here nor there. You survived.
Now, you also have another thread about astronomy where you are able to impart such interesting information for us all to read.
This is a distraction, interest, not only for yourself but also for so many others. You are helping others on here with your vast knowledge. Be proud.
Rescheduling our day, our time, happens and we survive. Importantly we look after ourselves. I am so pleased to hear a more settled tone of voice in your post. xxxx
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09 May 2017 09:20 AM
09 May 2017 09:20 AM
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Hi @Former-Member
Yes - yesterday was draining but I had a pleasant evening - I enjoy the nights so much better
I should have paid my phone bill yesterday but didn't - so I paid by debit card this morning and then asked for to have the late fee excused - and this will happen - what a relief - I could have paid the account before this - I usually do
Things can go amiss when life gets tough - for a few days I was not myself - who was I then - good question
Today I have been awake reading and thinking and feel as if things are so much better - it's raining here today - well - I live in Melbourne - if people don't like the weather here it is suggested that they just wait - it will be different soon
Hi @outlander - I hope you are okay today - I guess you have gone to the doctor by now and are waiting - I guess I will catch you on your thread
Dec
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