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08-11-2015 10:51 PM
08-11-2015 10:51 PM
I cried at my sister's wedding
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08-11-2015 11:09 PM
08-11-2015 11:09 PM
Re: I cried at my sister's wedding
Welcome to the forums and thankful for sharing so honestly about your experience. This is a great community and full of people who really do 'get it' about those feelings.
I'm glad you are 'still here'. I also failed at taking my own life and was so disappointed and frustrated at first but there are times when I suddenly have that clarity of thank goodness I'm still here for my kids.
I also constantly have memories and flashbacks to different events... Old stuff and more recent things that continue to make things tough at times but I do have a great psychologist who assures me I'm so much better than I was a year ago 🙂 sometimes I even believe her lol!
Hope to see u around the forums some more!
Take care
Lj
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09-11-2015 12:42 AM
09-11-2015 12:42 AM
Re: I cried at my sister's wedding
Hi @Swedish8 I'd like to welcome you too and also let you know that I've experienced all you describe too and agree with what @Former-Member says. Some days are harder than others when recovering ourselves and the forums are a safe place to share and be supported and even reach a place where you can offer support too.
Look forward to seeing more of you.
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09-11-2015 01:13 PM
09-11-2015 01:13 PM
Re: I cried at my sister's wedding
Hi @Swedish8
Welcome to the forums and thankyou for taking the time to so eloquently explain to us how you are feeling. The key point I saw in your post was you comment right at the bottom that mentions taking one day at a time. Sometimes it is beneficial to look at taking one second, or one minute at a time.
I wanted to ask if you have spoken to anyone about how you are feeling? I know you mentioned you felt freer by writing your story here, perhaps talking to a counsellor could help you. Or giving Lifeline a call on 13 11 14 - they have 24 hour counsellors you can talk to.
So welcome again, let us know if you wanted some advice on finding a counsellor.
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