@Faith-and-Hope You would think so Hon but all his behaviour over the last few years have shown he has had to control everything in his life externally to be able to deal with the internal changes. This may in-fact be a real turning point for both you and him - finally he may be not just seeing how truly amazing you are but recognising how much you have 'given up' to keep the family together. I really hope that your relationship as friends can begin to grow into something that is strong and meaningful for both of you - remember YOU have the power here now to take this where you want to - YOU have taken the first major steps and he is simply following in your footstepsnow - where that leads you both is entirely up to you now Hon - and I'll be by your side along the way 
He must have had a gorgeous personality for you to fall for him Hon 
The dynamic between you both has shifted so far from where you started out that even if he 'magically' changed there is so much water that has gone under the bridge (and at times flooded the bridge) that you will never be able to re-discover what you both once had. Any future will be one of new journeys together and would in-fact be starting a 'new' relationship from the beginning - if that is where it does take you Hon then I would be really happy for you - if it doesn't - guess what - still here and still by your side @Faith-and-Hope
Well Hon - that goes without saying
As hard as it still is for me on here - you do keep me going and make me want to stay connected (even if it is a ittle bit). Is that enough for me - at the moment YES. I have gotten through some really hard times with you (and others here too) by my side - and this week has been one of those. So selfishly I am glad you are here because I have met you - I wish it was not under the circumstances that brought us both here but it is what it is and we did meet - and you know that means the world to me @Faith-and-Hope
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SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.