Am Not Coping

[Pepsimax]

Hello @Bubbles3

[Former-Member]

Thanks @Zoe7 they did a lot for me even if at the time I resisted it/didn't appreciate it. I wouldn't be here without those people. There's certain people and moments you never forget. And that one particular day at school where they said it's going to be ok we'll work this one out is definitely one of them

[Zoe7]

@Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member 

[Faith-and-Hope]

Is this The Three Mouseketeers @Zoe7 ..... ? 🤗💕

Good morning ......

[Zoe7]

hahaha I didn't think of that @Faith-and-Hope - very funny 

The three Mouseketeers will need ears then - might leave that one until later when I need a distraction 

How are you today?

[Zoe7]

I'l lleave you with this @Faith-and-Hope...

[Faith-and-Hope]

Okay .... home now @Zoe7 ......

Youre leaving me with a giant triangle ...... ??!

😆

[Faith-and-Hope]

Hahaha ..... the triangle has cleared @Zoe7 ..... ❣️

Thats gorgeous 😆

Guess what ?  Mr. wants to bring his own coffee to join me at the coffee shop once a week ...... 😳

This is new.

[Zoe7]

That is new @Faith-and-Hope - what do you think is behind that? There must be some personal realisations for him behind that - hope it is to stay connected with you and not a way to keep some level of 'control'. 

[Faith-and-Hope]

I suspect it is to stay connected @Zoe7.  From what I am learning about this sort of p.d., it is often only when they begin to lose all the significant relationships in their life ..... when life no longer “works” for them in the way they imagined, in the way they have set it up to work ..... that they begin to acknowledge that there is a problem, and they need help.

I suspect I blind-sided him with this.  He had probably prepared himself to deal with me threatening, or actually, walking out and demanding a divorce ..... but not this .....

You would think he would know me better, right ??