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β20-10-2020 10:08 AM
β20-10-2020 10:08 AM
Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Hope so sweetie xxx
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β20-10-2020 10:16 AM
β20-10-2020 10:16 AM
Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Hi Em - we only have to write what we are up to here - and seeing your surgeon today is a huge deal - I hope - aw - what can I say - I would like to say I will be with you in spirit - a little owl on your shoulder while you go in their - a rather battered owl as you know but there for you anyway
I am so amazed that you cope with so much - with so little support - I hope you have been able to get onto your brother about your health - and I am getting my feathers tidied to sit on your shoulder - sorting out the bandages - I am not the one in the spot-light today - it's your turn
And I do care so much - and there is so little to say - I wish I could carry your bag and get you a coffee or tea if you prefer - run about and pick up and deal with some things - we all do I guess -
Sending my best thoughts
Dec
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β20-10-2020 05:21 PM
β20-10-2020 05:21 PM
Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Thinking of you dear @Emelia8 β€οΈβ£οΈπ
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β21-10-2020 09:54 PM
β21-10-2020 09:54 PM
Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Dear Em,
Wanted to let you know I see you. I'll be there with you in spirit tomorrow sweetheart. @Emelia8
Sending you love and hugs πππ
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β21-10-2020 10:08 PM
β21-10-2020 10:08 PM
Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Thank you @Anastasia π π
Im sure I will be fine. π
The breastcare nurse is going to call me sometime before my scan.
I feel weak and stupid for feeling like I do and for being so scared. I really dont deserve the support you and the others offer me. I want it, I need it ... but am unsure quite how to accept it. Does that make any sense at all? Or am I going totally around the bend.
I think I need sleep. Thank you @Anastasia and everyone else.
I will try to respond to all your messages over coming day or two. And provide a bit of an uodate. Should know more by weeks end.
Good night. π΄π
Em πΆπΈ
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β21-10-2020 10:16 PM
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Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Yes it makes sense hunny.
You are deserving. I hope you get some sleep now sweetie. Love you Em πβ£οΈβ€οΈ
@Emelia8 xxx
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β22-10-2020 06:38 AM
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Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
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β22-10-2020 07:59 AM
β22-10-2020 07:59 AM
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that's BS, and we can't always know how we'll respond to devastating news. Some of us will deny, deny and deny but the evidence will not go away.
Or we can tackle it head on, which you are doing. But it's scary as heck right? Like the worst fire-breathing dragon we know. Yet we stand in front of the fire frozen in fear. You're going to need every ounce of strength you've ever known.
And fighting this beast is exhausting. So you'll need to take breaks, collapse into the arms and strengths of friend who can support and restore us.
And who decides who's worthy and deserving of that support? Does it really matter, and perhaps we should shake off our doubts and thoughts, and just accept. Just be.
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β22-10-2020 08:26 AM
β22-10-2020 08:26 AM
Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Sitting with you today @Emelia8 my beautiful friend.
You certainly deserve every bit of support on offer and more because you are valuable.
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β22-10-2020 01:04 PM
β22-10-2020 01:04 PM
Re: A Life of Trauma and Tragedy (Possibly Triggering Content)
Dear @Emelia8 ,
you are not weak and stupid, you are human. I hope today goes ok and all are supportive and informative. Which I am sure they will be. Thinking of you
peri