@CarlachrisI do hope you went swimming and its great you enjoy your scooter and dog. As we get on and have health issues it is so much harder to keep socially engaged, let alone dealing with controlling partners or family.
Take Care of YOU
@Former-MemberIts a great post again. Thought provoking. Gives me lots to reflect and work on. I haven't given up, tho at times I felt like it.
I will tag it as favourite.
I am aware that some of these topics can be very emotive and there are a lot of complexities involved and I did feel that any response on the topic of social wellness that I could offer would be far from adequate. Spiritual wellness can also evoke strong emotions, can I gently encourage each of us to seek therapeutic support should we need it @Carlachris @FindingStrength @Shaz51 @Jay-e @Scoo @Appleblossom @Boo13 @Sophie1 @Carer101 @Kasey13
Spiritual wellness is being connected to something greater than yourself and having a set of values, principles, morals and beliefs that provide a sense of purpose and meaning to life, then using those principles to gui
To my mind, core values, culture and faith underpin our spiritual wellness and these often give us hope, vision and purpose.
There seems to be a strong link with character development, spirituality having been described as the ‘forgotten key to character development”, a “foundational facet of character” and being “character development when viewed through the heart”.
Spirituality was traditionally associated with religion, however modern usages tend to refer to a subjective experience of a sacred dimension and the "deepest values and meanings by which people live", often in a context separate from organized religious institutions and I found this explanation to be most helpful:
One way to understand the relationship between spirituality and religion is to imagine a game of football. The rules, referees, other players and the field markings help guide you as you play the game in a similar way that religion might guide you to find your spirituality.
Kicking the ball around a park, without having to play on the field or with all the rules and regulations, can also give you fulfilment and fun and still expresses the essence of the game, similar to spirituality in life.
You may identify as being any combination of religious and spiritual, but being religious doesn’t automatically make you spiritual, or vice versa.
I think however, it would be remiss not to point out that whilst religion and spirituality can have a positive impact on mental health and that whilst both religion and spirituality can help a person tolerate stress by generating peace, purpose and forgiveness, benefits generally vary between the two due to their different nature.
Mental Health Benefits of Religion
Religion gives people something to believe in, provides a sense of structure and typically offers a group of people to connect with over similar beliefs. These facets can have a large positive impact on mental health—research suggests that religiosity reduces suicide rates, alcoholism and drug use, its benefits include:
Community: Initiates social connections with other members, creates a sense of belonging to a group, offers trustworthy and safe social engagement
Ritual: Helps people to cope with difficult life situations (i.e. a ceremony for the loss of a loved one), provides structure, regularity and predictability, allows for time to rest as well as holidays and other special times of the year
Teachings: Provides guidelines to live by (i.e. the importance of doing the right thing), teaches compassion, forgiveness and gratitude, identifies life lessons, even from challenging situations.
Mental Health Benefits of Spirituality
Spirituality is a sense of connection to something bigger than ourselves—it helps a person look within and understand themselves while also figuring out the greater answer of how they fit in to the rest of the world. In other words: It helps people understand their interpretation of the meaning of life.
Spirituality also incorporates healthy practices for the mind and body, which positively influences mental health and emotional wellbeing. Here are some of those benefits:
Individuality: Enhances a person’s sense of self and empowerment through the choice to decide what their practice looks like, focuses on an individual’s connection to what they believe in and their own personal growth, accepts any person, whether they are part of a religion or not
Mindfulness: Encourages meditation and self-reflection, leads to a meaningful life philosophy (i.e. feeling connected to others, nature or art), prompts expression in any form such as art, poetry, myth or religious practice
Unity with Surroundings: Renews a sense of belonging in the world, inspires appreciation and awareness of a person’s interaction with the physical environment
(These mental health benefits are not limited to their respective categories—individuality isn’t exclusive to religion, just like spirituality can include a sense of community in some instances. The takeaway is that: If presented in a supportive way, religion and spirituality can help people improve their mental health and promote recovery.)
Some of the statements used to assess spiritual wellness include:
- I feel comfortable and at ease with my spiritual life.
- There is a direct relationship between my personal values and daily actions.
- When I get depressed or frustrated by problems, my spiritual beliefs and values give me direction.
- Prayer, meditation, and/or quiet personal reflection is/are important in my life.
- Life is meaningful for me, and I feel a purpose in life.
- I am able to speak comfortably about my personal values and beliefs.
- I am consistently striving to grow spiritually and I see it as a lifelong process.
- I have a strong sense of hope and optimism in my life and use my thoughts and attitudes in life affirming ways.
- I appreciate the natural forces that exist in the universe.
Practice Spiritual Wellness
When striving to develop and practice your own spiritual wellness, it is best to find the technique and approach that works for you; similar to the other dimensions of wellness, there is no “one size fits all” approach.
Your journey to spiritual wellness may involve the following:
- Practicing meditation or yoga
- Praying or taking part in organized religion
- Spending quiet time alone pondering the meaning of life
- Building awareness through journaling
- Serving your community, spending time in nature, appreciating music and the arts
Spiritual wellness has the power and capability to make our decisions and choices easier, ground us during periods of change and give us the resiliency to survive with grace and inner peace in the face of adversity. Having a spiritual element in our lives may even help us heal when suffering from a physical or mental condition.
References
http://www.differencebetween.net/language/difference-between-mind-and-soul/
https://www.viacharacter.org/character-strengths/spirituality
https://betterandbetterer.com/what-are-the-8-dimensions-of-wellness/
https://www.nami.org/Blogs/NAMI-Blog/December-2016/The-Mental-Health-Benefits-of-Religion-Spiritual
Rather fittingly this morning an article popped up in my Facebook feed that talked about 6 ideas to live more meaningfully this year which fitted in so well with our present dimension of wellness.
Renew your mind: spiritual wellness and character building are interlinked and they reflect core values that we hold.
Find community: a place where you can belong (as @Sophie1 mentioned in our social wellness discussion). Find others who share your passions and concerns. Groups that reflect deeper values such as justice, social or environmental concerns often bring deeper meaning to our lives.
Work out where your treasure is:Two things really testify to what we prioritise: how we spend our money and what we do with our time. Are we investing our time and money to make a difference with what we say we care about, or is there a disconnect between our heart and our actions?
Make space for others. Our lives are enriched when we connect with others. One piece of advice I read was to start casual, take small steps, tolerate strange situations and strangers, and let it evolve when something clicks.
Connect with and care for nature: Whether you live in the city, or in a regional area like me, there is nothing like connecting with nature to restore the soul as well as teach us lessons about restoration and care. Even sowing some herbs in a pot on your veranda connects you to cycles of life and creation and can teach you so much about caring for our earth. What are some simple steps you can take in your own life to reduce your impact on the earth? Maybe you could start by making a list of 10 things you could commit to this year. It could include things like swapping to green energy, using a reusable coffee cup or reducing rubbish generation.
Find your still place: Being still, praying, meditating etc can take on a variety of forms and finding a place where our hearts are stilled and free from distraction can lift our spirits. For some, myself included, is linked to environmental wellness, as my place is in the garden. However there have been many times when I have been on bush walks or out in nature where I have felt a sense of wonder and what I refer to as Divine presence.
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.