@AussieGirl i hear you the only way i will go back to see a counciler or psychologist is if i am speaking out openly or in my role at work.
@Bonnie yeah it is very time consuming and draining to be repeating the story. What people do not understand about services like victims service is, it is entirely up to the person with the problem to make contact and ask for help and then they are given the name of a counciler in their area and then it is up to them to make contact and make an appointment in the hope this person is the right fit. Also if not they have to restart the process all over again untill they hopefully find someone suitable that actually meets their needs and agrees with their goals on their healing journey. It is fustrating as all hell. I tried writting things out however i am not this is not accepted. So many bad fits where you are left questioning who you are as there seems to be a built in judgement and assumptions about who you are what you should be like and how you should act after the experiences you had. I just give up trying to find one and the recomendations from friends are private and super expensive but they healed enough to live productive and forfilling lives. Really makes you think.
