I'm having a very hard time right now.  I'll try and keep this short, but it will probably get long.  Sorry.

A few months ago I was diagnosed with autism at 55 years of age.  Up until that point I didn't even really know anything at all about autism.  If I had known the slightest thing it would have been glaringly obvious that I'm autistic and my entire life would have made a great deal more sense.

I got the NDIS.  Finally felt like I would get the support and help I have needed my entire messed up life.  But after just one meeting with my support co-ordinator, everything shut down for xmas and I have been feeling incredibly alone ever since.

My husband is American and his mum is in the hospital over there and going into a nursing home upon her release.  He is going over there for a month to get her affairs in order and visit with family.  I stopped going with him on these trips years ago due to the stress it put on me (not understanding I was autistic and just thinking I was overly sensitive and 'precious').  Now I can't really go cause I have animals to look after here.

I have no friends.  My parents are gone.  My 2 kids live in QLD (I'm in Vic).  I haven't seen my new grand-daughter at all since she was born and haven't seen my 2 year old grandson since he was born right before covid hit.  I am in introvert and gave up on friends a few years ago after too many painful experiences.  This doesn't really bother me when I have my hubby around and my best friends all have feather, fur and wool.  But it became very apparent to me when I was doing my NDIS application just how dependant on hubby I am.

He told me maybe a month ago that he was going to the US in March and I was not happy about it, but OK with it.  He usually goes for 2-3 weeks.  I hate it when he is gone. It is really tough but I get through.  This time I had spoken to my support co-ordinator about putting supports in place for his absence and I assumed I would have time to have some sessions with my pysch before he left, just to get my head on straight.
But then his mum got sick, and now the trip has been bought forward to this month and he will be gone for an entire month.  I'm freaked out.

I will have no time to have counselling before he goes.  I don't want a support worker right now cause of Omicron. As it was I live in a small rural town and would have to drive 45 minutes to go see a support worker, which I already wasn't thrilled about.  I'm alone.  I'm completely isolated.  I'm scared.

I contacted Amaze via email and they sent me some resources around suicide prevention.  I am honestly scared of what I might do alone for that long.  I'm scared I might get covid and then there will be no one to take care of the animals.  So I plan to stay away from people and shops and everything to protect myself.

I understand why my husband has to go take care of his mum.  I'm just really worried about him going to the US right now with all that is going on there.  I'm afraid to be alone for a whole month.  I tried talking to Suicide Call Back via chat but no one was there.  Due to my autism I don't do phone calls or skype or zoom or any of that stuff.  Lifeline is also not great for that same reason.  I just feel really let down and abandoned, which is not good for someone who is adopted and already has massive abandonment issues.  I know people have to have a xmas break, but why now!!  Why did this all have to happen now.