thanks @Adge.

To be fair she wasn't my psych when she said it. I made a comment about my ex best friend who screwed me over, spreading false rumours about me to mutual friends and refusing to pay me back money that she owes and my psych who was friends on FB with both of us took my ex friends' side and told me it was inappropriate to say anything about her, and that I was being very selfish by saying things that my ex friend couldn't defend herself against. All I'd said was that I will never trust her again and my faith and trust had been shattered. 

I resigned from my job last year to go be a carer for my dad and then after to and fro-ing he changed his mind. By this stage I was out of a job, had paid for a ticket to NSW and spent a substantial amount of my savings supporting myself while he vacillated between demanding I fly over, then telling me not to as he didn't want me caring for him. He then proceeded to tell me I must be a difficult person to like if my boss was happy to let me resign and not work my required two weeks. He knew the boss had bullied me but that was my fault too.

Not wanting to be awake right now tbh