I expect you'll get back to tidying when you're ready @NatureLover . For now I'm glad you're coping as well as you are. It sounds as though you mainly use the lightbox in the mornings?

I'm muddling through appointments and admin stuff this week. I think the garden worries me more at the moment than the house as some of the weeds are quite bad. I still haven't completed the hospital paperwork. I might have a last-minute change of meds as the gp is concerned my blood pressure is too low. The vet today suggested an ultrasound for the cat. I love him dearly but the logistics are beyond me at the moment and it doesn't seem urgent.

I expect I'll have plenty of opportunity to sort through old files in the next few weeks. I'll have to have paid help to do heavy gardening and shift boxes of books in future. I can't imagine how I'll do it all. And I may have to find space for boxes and furniture that have been offsite for a long time. 

It's lovely that you'll be spending time tonight with the newly-weds. I hope you're closer to them than your problematic father and some of his other family.

Take care @NatureLover , I appreciate our connection.