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Small vent here just to get it out.
Moment status change again here.
We have reached a point where my work has become unsustainable. (Issue of poor leadership and organisational culture) .
We have been here before
So it is a choice between pressing on because we need the money, and ultimately burning out and not being able to work anyway. (Been there done that).
Or cut and run while I am still functional enough to maybe get another job.
A key member of my team has already pulled the pin. My trouble is only going to get much worse when he bails in 6 weeks :nauseated_face:
The result of all of this is Darling is not handling it at all well and talking about giving up and no point living. Not what I need when doing all I can to support my family.
Humiliated to have asked family for a loan to clear debt. Secured a significant loan with non questions asked and yet somehow we are still hard done by.
At what point is the response to gentle and understanding and becomes, actually grow up and get a grip. Look ay the home you have, the car you drive and the food on the table and tell me we are hard done by 😡
Homeless people all around us and we want to bleat about the need for cautious spending for the short term until I can secure a new job.
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