27-03-2025 07:43 PM
27-03-2025 07:43 PM
@avant-garde maybe both? Are you thinking your relationship with him is over?
27-03-2025 07:46 PM - edited 27-03-2025 08:05 PM
27-03-2025 07:46 PM - edited 27-03-2025 08:05 PM
@Jynx I don't think so... but I do think I need to be more careful with him and how he treats me... he'll likely become my elder at the end of the year...
27-03-2025 08:38 PM
27-03-2025 08:48 PM
27-03-2025 08:48 PM
@avant-garde flying solo tonight so taking a bit longer than usual!!
Oh boy... that is worrisome! Like, is this another situation where you're finding you have to bite your tongue?
27-03-2025 08:53 PM
27-03-2025 08:53 PM
@Jynx ah that makes sense
And no I think it's worse than me biting my tongue, it's me being more inclined to revert to submissive coping strategies
27-03-2025 09:55 PM
27-03-2025 09:55 PM
@avant-garde I would definitely be keen to put aside more time for this conversation next time I am on, if you would like? I am sorry I haven't been able to tonight, but please know it is important to me, YOU are important to me, and I think it would be very worth us unpacking it a bit more.
For now, I think I must say goodnight! Aww I wanted to frolic!! Next time 😉🫂
27-03-2025 09:57 PM
27-03-2025 09:57 PM
27-03-2025 10:02 PM
27-03-2025 10:02 PM
@avant-garde pillow castle and unpacking, on our list!! Oh that first one sounds very fun, hehehe can't wait 😊💜
28-03-2025 06:49 PM
28-03-2025 06:54 PM
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