22-02-2025 11:32 AM
22-02-2025 11:32 AM
There are days when you think "why me? Why'd it happen to me?"
This is one of those days
yesterday
yesterday
I tried going to the first service... I tagged you about an hour ago... Second service started a little while ago... I have my spot
yesterday
Nice @avant-garde
What time is your second service?
We have a service at 10:30-12:30, then lunch together. Then another service 2-3pm. This is Sundays.
yesterday
And yes, I read about today... you poor thing. Must have been so hard to feel so invalidated with, "You'll be right when everyone sits down..." If they only knew. @avant-garde
Hugs to you. Next time, just visualise me sitting next to you if you want 🙂
I always sit next to my niece. I don't like sitting with other people. And I baggs the chair next to me by putting my stuff on it. It's selfish, but I don't like to be so close to others...
yesterday
I'm not one to share my service times... I have to be careful...
I sit in the front row, people typically avoid it, to the right hand side to stay out of the camera and close to the door so I don't panic.
I have my bag on the left side and my bottle or drink on the right hand side, I need somewhere to put my hands, something to cling to.
I do move 1 seat right if I need to but nobody except me sits in the front row usually
yesterday
Thanks for letting me know you don't want to share your service times. That's totally respected 🙂 Appreciate that.
Now that is BRAVE that you can sit right at the front! I sit second row from the back and closest to the aisle so I can leave from the back whenever I feel the need. @avant-garde Also, when sitting at the front, I feel all the people at the back are watching.. no thanks. I can't do that.
But I get it helps you stay focussed, listen, and you can exit if you needed.
I guess we've both worked it out in our own little ways. I hope tonight was okay for you.
yesterday
I had an elder approach me afterwards and assume that I needed a break and didn't come this morning because I was so exhausted from the quiz yesterday.
He clearly doesn't know me that well that I'll be sitting in the front row yawning 3 times a minute but still come to church... I will always turn up unless I'm physically not able to...
I got home and messaged him to set him straight
yesterday
Hrmmm... it's so strange. It seems like you are pretty active in the church, and yet the elder doesn't know his flock? Is that fair to say?
I hope you feel okay after everything today @avant-garde
Did you score a happy meal?
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