not coping

[outlander]

why are you apologising? @Sans911

[Sans911]

To you for having to be here for me, to others for upsetting them causing unnecessary distress and concern. Sorry for breathing, living. Everything.

@outlander

[Former-Member]

Can I join you both @Sans911 @outlander  here too please?  I kinda feel I was the one who set all this in motion, and thus responsible. Certainly nothing for you to feel bad about Sans. 😳💓

Plus I know you are worried about an unexplained absence from our joint friend after a post to far and away last Friday. I am also, as youd know from reading my posts there. Something aint right there, and even F&H is starting to worry now. Maybe Im responsible for that too?  She dissappeared the day I came back .. is that a coincidence?

Sherry 😞

[outlander]

@Sans911
i want to be here for you, there has been countless times that you have sat with me for god knows how many reasons. you never have to apologise for asking for help, in fact id rather you did because i know what happens when you hide away. so i ask that you please stay here with me ok?

i am so grateful that yours still breathing, living. there would be a bloody big gaping hole in my soul if you werent here, you help me get through each day just by being you. 

[Sans911]

Don't read too much into it @Former-Member. She was taking time out while you were also taking time out. And not because of you.

Yes, you might have said something tonight but I continued it. We are entitled to express ourselves here. The problem is that it's a difficult environment to do that in.

[outlander]

i hope that she will check in soon too, i am worried but i am hoping that maybe she is busy or just needs some time out @Former-Member she also said that she forgave you and wants to move on as well so maybe try not to overly stress about you being a cause

[Former-Member]

Can I entice you out of your rabbithole @Sans911  with a cuppa and a piece of choc/salted caramel brownie? How about you @outlander ? ☕🍪

Perhaps you are both right, but I cant help but think its because of me. 😔

[outlander]

a tea would be lovely thanks @Former-Member

@Sans911 you still here?

[Former-Member]

Looks like you are both gone now @Sans911 @outlander 

Will you be okay @Sans911 ? You sound really upset and Im concerned for you.

Are you getting bad weather over in WA again tonight? Is Mr A inside being his usual pesky adorable self? I have Holly by my side. She is all snuggly, as usual when its cold.

Take care, and please dont blame yourself over what you said. You are correct after all, in that we are able to express an opinion here.

Sorry to interupt, I will leave you both to it. I hate seeing people I care about in pain. 😒

Good night to both of you. 😴💕

Sherry

[outlander]

@Former-Member i think notifications are delayed, i responded abit ago saying id love to share a tea with you