not coping

[outlander]

i dont think they really wanted to be a friend @rav3n its usually one sided for the last year or so. doesnt really matter what the offer was like to go have lunch or something there was always some excuse. text msgs were random and i often didnt know how to respond.
i feel like they only wanted to be around me when i was paying them for some help.

i dont really have anyone else. i speak to work people but none that are friends and only work related things. i spend more time with clients or by myself.

[Eve7]

That’s tough @outlander and I’m sorry that happened. You deserve better.

[rav3n]

@outlander ahh yep, definitely seems like a friendship red flag if it's been one-sided. from what you've mentioned, i don't think they deserve your friendship. you definitely deserve a friend who treats you like an equal and is respectful. i've had a similar situation in the past where i've accepted bad friends into my life cos i had no one else... turns out no company really is better than bad company. but just know you're not alone, we care about you heaps and are here for you. sending you hugs 💙

i'll be heading off for the night soon, but please don't hesitate to reach out to the community. i'll chat with you soon, hope your night gets better.

[outlander]

Thank you @Eve7 @rav3n maybe things will look up soon

[outlander]

I have managed to secure a house I can start moving in tomorrow .
@tyme @Jynx @Eve7 @Sans911 @Snowie @rav3n

[tyme]

Yesss!!! @outlander  That's so amazing to hear! I sense that some relief. Yet I'm mindful how hard moving is. Will someone be helping you?

How are you feeling about everything?

Thank you so much for the update.

[outlander]

I have someone to help me tomorrow with some of the heavier stuff but I don’t really have much. Just a bedroom stuff a little lounge and some boxes. The place is only small so I don’t want to crowd it

[outlander]

@tyme above post

[Eve7]

I’m happy for you @outlander  💜💜

[outlander]

I’m all moved in @Eve7 @tyme @Jynx @rav3n @Snowie @Sans911