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Why Bother????
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27 Jul 2023 10:07 PM
27 Jul 2023 10:07 PM
Why Bother????
Some people just don't matter - may as well resign myself to that. I am past trying now!!!!
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28 Jul 2023 12:54 AM
28 Jul 2023 12:54 AM
Re: Why Bother????
Everyone does matter. It is just a bad day,or wave of emotions.Be there for yourself.This is what I keep saying to myself as well.
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28 Jul 2023 07:29 AM
28 Jul 2023 07:29 AM
Re: Why Bother????
Sorry to hear where you are at 🫂 @Zoe7
Sending lots of hugs and wishes that things will improve for you 💙
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16 Aug 2023 10:09 AM
16 Aug 2023 10:09 AM
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29 Aug 2023 09:02 AM
29 Aug 2023 09:02 AM
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❤️❤️❤️🦋 @Zoe7
You have always made a bigger difference here than perhaps you know …..
It does get very tiring when you share openly, and a lot, and seem to get limited responses in return. I can’t speak for others, but I am having a desert experience at the moment, and having found that ex has multiple email addresses, including one very similar to the one I use for here, I am reserving how much I put out here until the legals are past a stage where it might be used against me.
Our connection remains one of my joys in life, and I miss you when you are not here. I understand if it all feels too hard though, and understand too that your first priority is you.
Hugs n hugs …… 🌷🦋💖💕
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05 Sep 2023 11:03 AM
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10 Sep 2023 09:40 PM
10 Sep 2023 09:40 PM
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Hi @Zoe7 I can see you’ve dropped in today. I really hope you’re ok my dear friend 🩵
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11 Sep 2023 06:58 PM
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12 Sep 2023 10:26 AM
12 Sep 2023 10:26 AM
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Hi @Zoe7
I hear you - I know the feeling well - decades have passed and most of my family - my father's family and my mother have passed. Except from my cousin in Canada I really am not in touch with anyone -
Unanswered mail - yes - I have given up on the few remaining - except for my daughter - and that can be touchy as well.
Why bother? Such a short sentence with such loaded meaning - I understand.
I have been battling with health issues lately - so I haven't written much - I do care though
Mumma Bear
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13 Sep 2023 06:19 PM
13 Sep 2023 06:19 PM
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@Faith-and-Hope Our connection also is one of the ongoing joys in my life Hon - love you 💕
Everyone else - just not up to it anymore. The physical and mental pain is too great so sorry I am not tagging or giving anything else - just can't.
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