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07 Apr 2024 04:33 PM
07 Apr 2024 04:33 PM
Re: Not Coping
no worries @Birdofparadise8 🙂
Yes, it would be very nice if he did respond, however I was thinking it may be a bit of food for thought for him, so he may take a little while before getting back to you 🙂 xx
And I think it is also very nice that he apologised, because it is acknowledgement for you, and also realisation in him 🙂
Study is going ok here thank you xx and Im glad yours is going ok, however that does sound a bit disappointing that most of the answers are skewed to A...
Dont worry about grammar or spelling, I have my own areas of improvement in that myself! hehe xx 🙂
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07 Apr 2024 04:37 PM
07 Apr 2024 04:37 PM
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Yeah he might need to think on a resolution for the whole thing.
That's good to hear. Is your course all online? @Former-Member
What are you doing for dinner. I'm having honey soy chicken legs and fried rice. Yum.
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07 Apr 2024 04:46 PM
07 Apr 2024 04:46 PM
Re: Not Coping
indeed @Birdofparadise8 🙂
Course is all online - very convenient and something I really appreciate because otherwise it wouldn't be possible 💜
I had an early dinner, because I forgot to have lunch, and I had leftover lamb shanks with veggies I made some days ago which was very nice 🙂
Ooh, that sounds incredibly tasty! I hope you enjoy it!
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07 Apr 2024 04:52 PM
07 Apr 2024 04:52 PM
Re: Not Coping
@Former-Member I thought I was better, but today has been harder. I do need to move on, I can’t keep going back, I can’t change it. Nor can I get what’s been taken
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07 Apr 2024 05:34 PM
07 Apr 2024 05:34 PM
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That is good @Former-Member
Nice lamb shanks are so good.
Yeah I'm about to eat it now.
Yeah maybe he does @creative_writer
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07 Apr 2024 06:23 PM
07 Apr 2024 06:23 PM
Re: Not Coping
Hey there @creative_writer 🌺
Kindly, recovery from trauma I have found isn’t completely linear, and isn’t time dependent, either.. meaning, there are still harder days, no matter how much time passes. However, I think the difference comes with how we manage, and how we can build resilience within our recovery and the time that passes…would love to hear what you think 💜🙂🌺
im so sorry the trauma you’ve experienced is still hurting
- it sounds like there is loss or grief present also, from what I’m reading in your message 💜🌺
holding space for you 🌺🙂
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07 Apr 2024 06:34 PM
07 Apr 2024 06:34 PM
Re: Not Coping
Yes indeed, love lamb shanks 😋🌺 @Birdofparadise8 🌺
How was dinner? I hope you feel full and happy 💜🙂🌺
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07 Apr 2024 06:36 PM
07 Apr 2024 06:36 PM
Re: Not Coping
Nearly full hahaha @Former-Member
Not feeling happy though.
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07 Apr 2024 06:40 PM
07 Apr 2024 06:40 PM
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@Birdofparadise8 greetings princess. I've been down with a major sinus headache and the 36 degrees heat hasn't helped.
I hope your day has gone well.
This has probably been answered but I personally wouldn’t ask if he still wants to be friends. It sounds like you're giving him an ultimatum and he may feel backed into a corner which may backfire.
If you want to remain friends keep it light and suggest a catch up for a time that suits him as well as you.
Hope your day has gone well princess, I've just taken some more headache tablets. I'm fine lying down but as soon as I sit up bam! Heady poundy 🤯
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07 Apr 2024 06:40 PM
07 Apr 2024 06:40 PM
Re: Not Coping
Is it your friend @Birdofparadise8 ? 🌺💜
Here for you 🙂💜
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