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Moving forward (sexual abuse )
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27 Mar 2017 09:53 PM
27 Mar 2017 09:53 PM
Re: Moving forward (sexual abuse )
thats great @Faith-and-Hope sounds so beautiful, when i went the south coast we could see dolphins from our porch. and we fed the lorikeets on the porch, they would land on us and take the seeds from out hand
@Appleblossom lion cubs are cute and there are so many sorts of birds. im afraid to be near people in case i trigger them or anything when im in a low mood
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28 Mar 2017 02:11 PM
28 Mar 2017 02:11 PM
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That is a beautiful drawing @Former-Member
People often feel comfort from animals and pets and wildlife. Partly its the connections we have with them and partly they bring us out of ourselves when we get a bit stuck. So that is why I made the decision to keep returning to nature .. in some way.
Triggers are tricky. You cant take total responsibility for other people's triggers. It matter that you have a social conscience though. With that and some creativity and sense of beauty, you have what it takes to be a fine human being. Nobody is perfect and that would be boring and fake anyway.
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28 Mar 2017 02:14 PM
28 Mar 2017 02:14 PM
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i know @Appleblossom but i cant help feeling responsible if it triggers someone else and then im powerless to help them
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28 Mar 2017 02:51 PM
28 Mar 2017 02:51 PM
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So that is where we do need to practise more subtle awareness of responsibilities ... ie primary, secondary tertiary triggers etc .. and the maturity of age ...
Sometimes sharing pain .. actually completely releases someone else from loneliness. Sometimes it reminds them.
these are only ever secondary triggers ... Grown ups do have the responsibility not to project that out ... but it is an area of spectrums and you are a younger member on the forum ... take care of you .. by not taking everyone's issues on board.
I have to go .. and do my work now ... but you are very encouraging and imaginative and loyal .. dont forget that. Bella
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28 Mar 2017 03:18 PM
28 Mar 2017 03:18 PM
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im really struggling i rang my suicide prevention clinician and they are going to ring back tomorrow morning to check in aswell. shes given me a few other techniques to work on and try, i can ring ATAPS which in run throught the program as much as i like to get through whenever i need it and if things get worse to get the hospital,and not to worry about anyything else jsut get there and get some more emergency help @Appleblossom @Faith-and-Hope
i know i shoudlnt take others things on board but i havent learnt that yet, i cant help but want to help people and if i cant do that it makes me feel worse
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