Checking In

[Ali11]

Oh @Queenie, we're so sorry to hear about that! Are you okay? Don't be too hard on yourself, it's still fresh now but your partner is aware of what you've been going through and that you're doing your best to get that hospital bed, so hopefully this doesn't cause too much of a blow in the long run. Have the two of you been speaking today about what happened? Sending you love! 

[Meowmy]

@Queenie @Sorry to hear your distress. Hope you will find comfort until hospital bed comes up. It should be good. A new beginning with new meds. Take care.

[Meowmy]

@oceangirl Thanks for the tip. I think I am extremely insecure in relationships and friendships. I need to hold on to the ones I care tightly. If I don’t hear or talk to them for a while, I will feel very empty and lonely and alone. I am learning to loosen up a bit and enjoy relationships/friendships at a bit of distance. Thanks again.

[oceangirl]

Your welcome @Meowmy . 

[oceangirl]

Your welcome @Meowmy . I think its great- that you have insight and awareness. That is huge. Perhaps working on yourself will help in your relationships too. Many us have troubles and concerns in rlationship because we care about the other person but for me I have always put them first. I am trying to find the balance because I want to be valued too and appreciated. 

[Faith-and-Hope]

Hi @Queenie 

How are you doing this afternoon ?

Better, I hope ..... and being gentle with each other .....

Once you are in hospital and treatment has settled things for you, it might be worth developing a checklist with your Mrs. and the doctors to give a clearer picture about when and why to call emergency services ?  It can be hard being with someone who is struggling ane being unsure whether you are doing the right thing by them .....

Hope that hospital bed materialises soon for you ....

Hugs 🌷💕

Thanks @oceangirl 

Gow are you doing ?

[oceangirl]

Hi @Faith-and-Hope 

I'm ok- been able to do more today. I have specialists Tuesday -I hope to sleep well tomorrow night for that. I have just feed the dogs and waiting to put in Milos drops for his eyes. Both dogs are playing atm tug of wars. Kira always wins though. Not much else happening. I saw family yesterday and I am worried about my brother.

[Faith-and-Hope]

Do you want to talk about your brother @oceangirl ?  Maybe on Depression thread ?

Sorry,I didn’t answer your earlier question.  Somewhere on the Teply box screen you will find a set of icons.  One looks like a 3-chain link.  Click on that and follow the prompts.  It might mean visiting the other thread and copy-and-pasting the thread URL address into the link instructions, and either writing the title of the thread you are linking to as the name to appear on the page, or some people write “here” as a part of their conversation.

[Meowmy]

@oceangirl  One of my greatest regret is that I was not able to marry and have my own family at Uni graduation due to my parents interference.

After that, I had been sick until last year. To live the rest of life on my own is a daunting thought. But likely to be the way though.

I just try to find some connections and balance for my emotions, so when mum passes I can still live on and function.

Thanks. You are very helpful.

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[oceangirl]

Thanks @Faith-and-Hope  It worked  

I've been on here a while and just going to get some dinner sorted and I will back in a little bit. Hope you will be still around if not we can talk another time.