under 30s thread

[Former-Member]

nah its something different, i'll explain it

[Zoe7]

Do none of them live together @Former-Member?

[Zoe7]

okay @Former-Member take your time - I'm listening 

[outlander]

@Zoe7we are going to have to start calling you snickers! 

[Former-Member]

so im at my mentors house and ages ago they bought me something and i was looking forward to going out this weekend and using it, assuming because i got it from them they would like to come, its booked for tomorrow so its too late to change it. i got upset when i asked them i they were coming to watch and they said no they are too busy, i like them so much and it made my heart shatter because i feel supported by them and i wanted them to come see me, i started crying and left the room, they said fine we'll come, but you know i feel like if its going to burden them then doesn't matter.
i just got upset with them because i wanted them to be there

[Former-Member]

there is 10 of us all up sp they are split @Zoe7 some are by themselves some aren't its hard to find people to look after 1 kid let alone more than 1 i was always by myself

[outlander]

sorry to hear that @Former-Member its a shame they cant come with you. do you mind sharing what it was/is that you have planned with what they brought you?

[Zoe7]

oh bugger @Former-Member that is tough  I know that feeling - if they had said they would come in the first instance then it would have made you so happy but now it feels like it is a chore for them - I get it - you want them to come because THEY want to be there for you. And you should be made feel special by someone buddy - you deserve that.

Was it surfing you wanted them to go to?

[Former-Member]

well we decided not to stay down at the beach because i remembered i had this on @outlander @Zoe7 its just this outdoor experience thing

[Former-Member]

they said they would come if i changed the date but its too late now i think and i don't want to wait i need this to get me through the weekend @Zoe7