07-01-2025 08:51 PM
07-01-2025 08:51 PM
oh, well he said 'after 13th' which is next monday and 'maybe 4 days' ie scared he'll get sick of me or vice versa or both. better to be safe sometimes setting time limits lol and he will be on own, so his wife coming was highly unlikely but at least not happening.they have toxic relationship, plus she didnt go to either of my parents funerals , after 2nd one, thought well dunno if ever want to see you again.. yet her parents super important, spends months there, ok to have affairs etc lol. even my sister picked up on it and said she has no idea why they are together still. @StuF
07-01-2025 08:55 PM
07-01-2025 08:55 PM
Well at least you have some time before @TAB
I mean, I can't imagine he'll be expecting hospital grade spotless, but it sounds like it will take Some preparation lol
07-01-2025 09:18 PM
07-01-2025 09:36 PM
07-01-2025 09:48 PM
07-01-2025 09:48 PM
wel he never came to kalgoorlie or to perth in one of times there @StuF think might be early 90s since met him under 'my' roof .. unless he vistied me mid 90s, no recollection, i always went to see him
oh , he expressed surprise at my cleaning ability like 10 years ago now, I thought yeah ok, I leave things go , but if clean them, usually do it properly .. so long as not too much stuff all over floors room for mattress or whatever, table and underneath it cleared yeah yeah
07-01-2025 09:49 PM
07-01-2025 09:49 PM
nite @Meowmy didnt realise how late it was already
07-01-2025 09:50 PM
07-01-2025 09:50 PM
Good Luck @SmilingGecko you know i wouldnt touch it. others see it as a Ponzi scheme. do what you need to do.
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