26-12-2024 09:29 PM
26-12-2024 09:29 PM
@Gremlin24 oh no. I didn’t know that you weren’t able to leave your abuser.
26-12-2024 09:31 PM
26-12-2024 09:31 PM
@Glisten it's not a matter of leaving. None of the people that do this to me live with me.
26-12-2024 10:03 PM
26-12-2024 10:03 PM
Yes, sometimes it is better not to take life too seriously and find comfort in the little things, the simple, everyday moments that make us happy.
27-12-2024 08:09 AM
27-12-2024 08:09 AM
@Gremlin24 I don’t know what to say. I really don’t.
I can identify with people who have been lied to repeatedly; Gaslit; publicly embarrassed, emotionally abused, financially abused, had their professional careers ruined.
I worked in politics for two narcipaths, both women. I also worked for some good people. Loved my job because I could do things to help people.
I had the ability to attract a variety Narcipaths, one after another.
I set a goal with my psychologist and counsellor, that I wanted to learn skills to have quality relationships and it has worked.
We all have our own journey. I don’t know what my future holds, but I got this bit right.
@Gremlin24 the shite treatment being dished out by this person or people is always about them. You could be anyone and they would still do the same thing.
big HUGS
G
27-12-2024 08:34 AM
27-12-2024 08:34 AM
@Glisten I'm so glad you have been able to learn to have quality relationships, that in itself is something to be so proud of.
These people just won't leave me alone despite many attempts of moving and seeking refuge, trying to get authorities involved, trying to get help from so many people and services. It hurts to feel and know that I'm not worthy of helping to make this stop, to know that this is my life and that this will keep happening for as long as these people decide to continue to hurt me. I'm exhausted and I'm broken but for today I've woken up and I'm still here, so for today that's as good as it gets.
02-01-2025 03:45 PM
02-01-2025 03:45 PM
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