17-12-2021 08:46 PM - edited 17-12-2021 08:50 PM
17-12-2021 08:46 PM - edited 17-12-2021 08:50 PM
Hi @HenryX I really appreciate the time and effort that you put into your messages. I find it difficult to take it all in. But I'm grateful that you include me. Not such a great time for me. Meaning in life. But things are improving. How are you going?
17-12-2021 08:52 PM
17-12-2021 08:52 PM
I'm interested, are you married, children? I don't know much about you, but you don't have to say. @HenryX
17-12-2021 09:00 PM - edited 18-12-2021 12:09 AM
17-12-2021 09:00 PM - edited 18-12-2021 12:09 AM
Hello @Former-Member
Really pleased to hear from you, and I hope that things are relatively stable for you. I have noticed that you have said that "Not such a great time for me."
I am also aware that some of my messages suit some people and not others, depending on situation and circumstance. I assure you that I am pleased to know that you are able to check in here. You are always welcome, if just for a few words, or a bit more of a conversation. I promise not to overload you.😃
When I am talking with people, I generally try not to enquire too much, as that may be intrusive, but I am always happy to have a word or a page, depending on how you are feeling.
Thank you for acknowledging my last post about Cassie Jaye. I have been really impressed with what she presented. And also thank you for the appreciation that you expressed for what I offer in general.
Please let me know if you would like to talk about anything, or just sit and let each other know that we share some thoughts and care.
With My Very Best Wishes
17-12-2021 09:21 PM - edited 17-12-2021 09:24 PM
17-12-2021 09:21 PM - edited 17-12-2021 09:24 PM
Hi @Former-Member ,
I live on my own. Up to July two years ago, my mother lived with me for seven years before going into residential care. Mum was there for three years. The residential care, where I now go to participate in singing with others and the residents, on Thursday morning, is only about 750 metres away.
Each day, I used to go up to be with mum, often to have a meal with Mum and the other residents. After Mum passed away, it was nearly 2 years before I felt comfortable going back for the singing. Now I enjoy the company of the residents and the other singing group members, and they seem to enjoy mine. We also have a small singing group on Tuesday evenings at a local hall.
I have four daughters and a son. The older of my daughters visits me with her son. As I think you can imagine, I very much enjoy their company, when they come to visit, every couple of months. My son and the other three daughters are more distant. I am hoping and mentally working toward establishing contact with them. I do hope that might be pleasant for them and for me.
That is a little bit about my life. If you have any other questions, I would, while recognising guidelines, be happy to talk with you about my life.
With Best Wishes
17-12-2021 09:29 PM - edited 18-12-2021 01:26 PM
17-12-2021 09:29 PM - edited 18-12-2021 01:26 PM
Thankyou for sharing a part of your life @HenryX
I really hope that there will be reconciliation with your other children. I don't have any contact with family, except my husband and daughter. Christmas is always a difficult time. I always say to myself, it will be ok. But it hasn't been so far. Next year is going to be different. I'll make sure of it.
I'm sorry to hear that you don't have contact with all of your kids. That must be difficult.
I meant to say, next year will be better. @HenryX 😃
17-12-2021 09:50 PM
17-12-2021 09:50 PM
Yes @Former-Member , it is difficult to feel that people so close on a familial relationship level are so distant in time and space. However, like you, I remain hopeful and work toward the goals that are important to and for me and those I care about. That sentiment connects with your very positive comment,
"This year is going to be different. I'll make sure of it."
I certainly hope that with realistic expectations and a little nudging, you and your family and I too, will have a pleasant and peaceful Christmas.
I will be joining a close friend, of whom I have spoken on the forum, and her family for Christmas. I have known all the children since they were born, and they relate to me really well. Consequently, while it may not be all that I could wish for, the company and activities will be pleasant and I will not be on my own.
Cheers, @HenryX
17-12-2021 10:01 PM
17-12-2021 10:01 PM
It is very difficult when your kids turn away. I hope it changes for you @HenryX You are so kind to everyone.
My daughter has gone her own way a few times, but she always comes back. It's a safe place at home. I love my home.
I really hope things turn around for the best for you.
17-12-2021 11:55 PM
17-12-2021 11:55 PM
Thank you so much for your thoughts and expression of concern @Former-Member . I'm sorry that I was not able to reply sooner. I had a telephone call and another response to finish and post. I know that you probably don't expect or need an explanation, but it feels more comfortable for me to offer it.
It is with a great deal of pleasure that I read your statement, "It's a safe place at home. I love my home."
I very much hope that you have an enjoyable and pleasant Christmas with family and hopefully with friends also. And that the presence of your daughter will be comforting and special for both you and your husband.
This evening I plan to be here for a while. Tomorrow I will be going out with friends for most of the day and will be in tomorrow evening.
Happy to connect any time we can, and thank you so very much for your conversation this evening.
With My Very Best Wishes to You, @Former-Member
18-12-2021 06:20 AM
18-12-2021 06:20 AM
@HenryX I love being a part of your posts HenryX. I will endeavour to listen to the presentation later today. Love to you pea
18-12-2021 10:38 AM
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