Good Morning!

[soul]

@outlander Your mother will have to get over it. I was just saying it's not a given that your mother should be Facebook friends with your friends.

Not minimising what is going on with you but my sister deleted me from Facebook. Not only that but she and my brother spread my mother's ashes without inviting me to participate. She sent me a photo saying how lovely it was. I responded by telling her that I was deeply offended to which she replied that Mum hadn't said they had to be part of my life. 

I was very upset but have now accepted that just because we share genetics doesn't make them a decent person or even someone that I need to have in my life. I don't want that toxicity and just have to move on. We live in the same town and I know she visits her daughter who lives a couple of blocks away twice a week but I can't see us ever reconciling.

I am lucky to have friends who are more like true sisters to me.  

As hard and scary as it seems, I reckon that you should really move away. So many of your problems appear to stem from being in that household and having responsibilities that shouldn't be bestowed on you. Is there any other family who you could stay with? Otherwise, some government assistance and live in a share house somewhere. You are an adult now and it is most acceptable that you spread your wings and fly. 

[outlander]

I know she has to get over it. Im.backing my friend in this one unfortunately @soul but im coping the backlash of everything and getting blamed for everything under the sun.
Im sorry all that happened to you. It seems there are more bad than good in the world.
My pop got upset this morning and said to me. He wont say it to them but he said to me while i was taking him out to rta that they are doing the exact opposite of what they were told to do. Dont get me so upset esp over little things like this.
It felt like being thrown betwern brick walls and getting no where.

Im looking at housing but im worried pop will loose his house. The reason im staying put at the moment.

[soul]

Seems like there is no way to please everyone. You need to start thinking about yourself. I was like that too - always sacrificing my needs for others. And rarely being appreciated. More so blamed for the slightest little thing because of other people's guilt. It sucks.

I am so much happier that I have don't have that in my life now. You need to move on and make a life of your own. Do you want to be in this same situation one, two, three years down the track?

You deserve to be happy. I think it's been so long that you were, that you don't know any other way of living and are well and truly stuck. Negativity takes over and it's all you expect.

[Ant7]

Hi @outlander I think your drawing is really good. I hope it goes well at the GP 

[Ant7]

How are you @Bimby2

[Bimby2]

Well thank you Ant7. With best wishes from Bimby2

[Shaz51]

Hello @Bimby2, @Former-Member, @Ant7, @soul, @outlander

you can not please everyone all the time xoxo

[Ant7]

Hi @Shaz51 how are you

[Former-Member]

Good Evening @Ant7 @outlander @Shaz51
& Everyone!!! 🙂
I haven't been visiting Forum for a couple of days. I have been in too much pain. I m seeing GP to morrow I really hope he sort my pain meds out for me. 🙂
I am sad that you so much to deal with @outlander I love your drawing it's Art there is no wrong or right with expressive Art. I will find my -
Art books soon & we can share our Art would you like that @outlander? I wish I could fly over with my Fairy Wings & lift you out of the troubles you have & take you somewhere special if you close your eyes @outlander & take yourself in your imagination to a safe place then feel the love & the safety in the beautiful safe place you will feel at peace. There in your very own safe beautiful place that you & only you created in your imagination you can feel your emotions & body heal & you will be so safe in your very own safe place you will be free to be you without any judgement demands & sickness. No one can take this safe beautiful place off you @outlander because it totally belongs to you, you created the amazing place & you may like to draw this place & keep this drawing somewhere that you can look at when ever life tries to steal your joy.
No one can steal anything from all of us we get brain washed into thinking that we have, must do, or it's our fault on life it's how we respond to the challenges. If you can use your creative imagination as wonderful healing gift you can have the freedom you need to be who you know you are & then you can have pease love healing & joy to help you in this place called life & not have to be dragged down. We may get knocked down, but NEVER knocked out!
Love & hugs
Bella xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Shaz51]

Hello @Ant7, @Former-Member

how are you today ??? being busy here xoxo