Good Morning!

[Former-Member]

@Former-Member I hope you enjoy where you are going. I miss being able to get to places given my situation. I'm very much a homebody these days with my CFS. I prefer home life actually but just getting too old for adventures lol! Anyway have a good time and enjoy the change of scenery, it will do you a world of good! ❤️

[Former-Member]

Thanks @Former-Member 

im pretty much at home these days too and prefer relaxing

[maddison]

Hi @EternalFlower how are you going this lovely Sunday?

Thankyou for the info on PARCs, so helpful - all the peeps on here!!

I am feeling not quite myself today. Not sure what it is. I look in the mirror & feel like I look different?! It happens sometimes, I guess.

Leaving in half an hour to visit my hm Mum. She lives in the country area - not too far. It will be a nice drive.. Hopefully!

Hello everyone. Enjoy your Sunday whatever you are doing xx

[MDT]

Cheers @Former-Member
Keep it real

[MDT]

Have a good trip @Former-Member
Hope they let you pilot it

[StuF]

Am in Sydney @Former-Member 

Great to hear about your self motivation! 🙂

[MDT]

Hey @StuF
Hows stuff ?

[StuF]

Hey @MDT 

I've seen glimpses of conversations from the last couple of days- been out a lot, not going to try and fully catch up on all threads!

Anyway, I saw mention of your relationship ending. Sorry to hear that. You dealing with it ok?

Stuff at my end is ok. Feeling rather average today, but that's my own damn fault- enjoyed myself a bit too much at the footy yesterday. So, quiet one here today

[Former-Member]

@MDT I know of someone who was in the coaching field and she mentioned in one of her     e-mails that relationships can coalesce around various forms of things:

Power, Attention, Influence and Revenge. 

Its basically what people are after in a relationship given deficits in early upbringing and personal history.  Your relationship will fall into one of these categories. 

I suspect she has been abused by others and she is taking it out on you.  She may not be used to people treating her with respect and have a self esteem issue.  Its hard to turn people from their victimhood unless they are willing to do the work Hams. 

I'm just worried if you go in deeper it could get worse with her.  Things can always be addressed & no relationship is doomed from the start but the people have to do the messy inner work.

But just something to bear in mind...

[Former-Member]

@StuF How old are you?

good to hear you enjoyed the game last night