@BPDSurvivor others especially from your family forcing you to be somebody who you are not is a false sense of paternalism. Coming from partners trying to fix you arises from frustration. Nobody knows the intricate nature of how you are as a person and your life only unfolds according to your unique plan. So keep being YOU! 
It’s so lovely to hear from you
Thank you so much for taking the time to share such an inspiring and uplifting YouTube video with us 
Take care of yourself,
ShiningStar
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.