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Gifts to yourself!
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18 Dec 2019 06:25 PM
18 Dec 2019 06:25 PM
Re: Gifts to yourself!
I think the gifts to myself that I'd like the most are rest and joy.
To that end, I've got a habit of spending any cash gifts on plants... since the garden is a place that holds a reasonable promise of finding both, under the shifting shade of a tree, in the juice running out of a ripe peach, or in the first flowers of a new plant.
I can understand why "first fruits" are celebrated in Judeo-Christian tradition. They're little promises of hopes held for the future.
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18 Dec 2019 09:05 PM
18 Dec 2019 09:05 PM
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Giving Gifts to myself - I know it's good & healthy @Shaz51
Does not come easily or naturally - certainly not encouraged by my upbringing.
In fact quite the opposite - "Give to everyone else & be left out" (myself).
Yes the "Come on Inner Peace, I do not have all day".
Good saying - I've posted that one on Forums before.
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18 Dec 2019 09:21 PM
18 Dec 2019 09:21 PM
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My gift to myself is to keep making time to get to the pool and swim, and if I can't go sit near the river in the park. Swimming works the body and muslces that I cannot do on land. It is also good mentally because I can usually manage to block out everything but the sounds and feel of the water. The park near the river has birdlife, trees, kids laughing and playing, and places to sit and read, colour, write etc.
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18 Dec 2019 09:23 PM
18 Dec 2019 09:23 PM
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Can relate @Adge re childhood message of putting self last.
I am working to unlearn that one.
My gift to myself would be balance.
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I am not good at remembering people to tag, but to everyone who wants to be, count yourself included
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19 Dec 2019 12:11 AM
19 Dec 2019 12:11 AM
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I am letting go of those I can't help, the things I can't change.
Giving myself the freedom of moving on.
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I wish my memory was better, so much help here, thank you.
Everyone on the forum.
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19 Dec 2019 02:45 AM
19 Dec 2019 02:45 AM
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@Wanderer hey Wanderer so good to see you. Hopefuly will catch up more over Christmas and New Year holidays if you are free. Love peaxxx
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19 Dec 2019 07:58 AM
19 Dec 2019 07:58 AM
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A quiet Christmas Sweetpea @greenpea
My parents, daughter and myself.
Looking forward to settlement on the new house and moving in, moving forward.
A new year, new hope, hoping everyone gets to take steps forward.
Wishing the best for you and everyone here.
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19 Dec 2019 08:11 AM
19 Dec 2019 08:11 AM
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@Wanderer hoping you get all your Christmas wishes Wanderer xxx:)
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30 Dec 2019 10:02 AM
30 Dec 2019 10:02 AM
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