‎03-11-2019 12:31 PM
‎03-11-2019 12:31 PM
@Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope 💜💜💜💜
‎03-11-2019 01:33 PM
‎03-11-2019 01:33 PM
Hi to everyone here. No tags, as I dont want anyone to feel obliged to respond to me. But I wanted you to know I am thinking of you .. often and with concern and fondness. I really want you to be okay and hope that happens soon. I fully respect your need to retreat for a bit, as well as your desire to stay in touch with your 'bestie' here. Thats lovely and I know you both benefit greatly from that. I will continue to not tag you on any of my posts. If you want that to change, please just let me know, and I will be happy to do so. Its good to see that you have had quite a productive weekend. Good on you.
Sherry 💕
‎03-11-2019 01:48 PM
‎03-11-2019 01:48 PM
The kids are all up to speed now @Zoe7, so we have to see where everything goes from here - studies, planned holidays, managing resources, etc.
I am trying to stay focused on my studies for the next couple of weeks until that’s all finalised, but finding it hard to concentrate at the moment. Working on a little personal stuff, then uni stuff, then personal stuff ....
‎03-11-2019 02:43 PM
‎03-11-2019 02:43 PM
It is a really hard time for you Hon with a lot to deal with and a lot to consider - so go as easy on yourself as your can. Having uni is a good distraction but not great you can't concentrate - baby steps there too hey until you get it all done. The rest will work itself out and I have no doubt you will do what you need to do to protect both you and your baby dragons. It really is important that you come out of all this with what you deserve and as hard as that is to think about do not let Mr get away with trying to control any of that - he has controlled your lives long enough and now it is your time to break free from all that abuse and live for yourself again @Faith-and-Hope I also know you need to consider your baby dragons - especially those with you in the East but this could also be the making of them too. It is never easy living with such constant stress and unrealistic expectations so they may in fact find their own feet with less structure and constantly walking on egg shells. I also know you have to carefully consider D2 and how you are going to care for her - and whether that will be a shared arrangement and what that will look like. So much to think about and work through Hon - with everything - studies, holidays, resources, living arrangements and care for your baby dragons - just make sure you care for yourself in all that too and think about your needs as well as your own future
‎03-11-2019 08:50 PM
‎03-11-2019 08:50 PM
Thanks @Zoe7 .... I am doing the best I know how, and the baby dragons are helping me too.
‎03-11-2019 09:37 PM
‎03-11-2019 09:37 PM
I am so happy you have the support of your baby dragons @Faith-and-Hope. You can only do the best you can and that is enough. You have showed nothing but grace and dignity throughout these past years so it is not surprising under the circumstamces that your bds have both seen that and are helping you now - nothing less than you deserve Hon
‎04-11-2019 02:40 AM - edited ‎04-11-2019 02:42 AM
‎04-11-2019 02:40 AM - edited ‎04-11-2019 02:42 AM
@Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @Maggie @eth
Whose kitchen could this be?! 🤣🤣
At least you could have arranged the labels the same way round....
‎04-11-2019 04:13 AM
‎04-11-2019 05:39 PM
‎04-11-2019 05:39 PM
Hi Zoe7 (not tagging 💜) thought I'd post this here for next time you're on here. I think this is the only thread you're checking into, so thought I'd post this here rather than your Sport Thread. I'm hoping you got some joy in hearing that Ash Barty won the WTA Final yesterday. She beat a player she has never beaten in about 5 or 6 meetings. That would have made it even more special. Biggest prizemoney in tennis history as well. Wow! Plus she maintains her #1 ranking for the year. So good to see genuinely nice people doing well in sport. Anyway Zoe I hope you are doing better. Still thinking of you. 💕🌼🌞
@Faith-and-Hope I know you are hurting too, with so much upheaval happening in your life. I also know you will find a way through it all with grace and dignity intact as always. Sending much love and understanding your way also. 💖
Hi @Former-Member @oceangirl @Maggie @BlueBay @Gazza75 and other regulars who come through here. 👋
Sherry
‎04-11-2019 11:34 PM
‎04-11-2019 11:34 PM
Checking in with a hug for all who need one .....
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