Hugs, @Faith-and-Hope. Hoping it's for the better that the emotions are risen now. Couples counselling can be difficult. I did it for a relationship I was in many years ago, didn't save it, but perhaps made some things clearer and more resolved. Wishing the best outcome for you and family. 
Ohhh wow @Mazarita 
way to go my scottish sister xx
Hello @Faith-and-Hope, have not been here for a while , love to go back
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.