i hear you, you you have a special someone? i hope you manage to find a nice girl and settle down, it is hard work when you are fighting on your own.
you sound like a great bloke, i am sure you will be successful, you are a hard woker, and you seem to be very smart.
you will get their, even if it takes some time. 
Oh dear @Bill16I hate pernicious vicious cycles ... but you know I used to love motor cycles.
Dont be angry with me but I am seeing swirling thick viscous golden syrup on my porridge .. I just loved how it dripped off the spoon.
Can we play with words cos I am good girl and old and straight now not at all flirty .. and hope you do get to start a family .. one day.
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.