28-12-2016 12:18 AM - edited 28-12-2016 12:20 AM
28-12-2016 12:18 AM - edited 28-12-2016 12:20 AM
who began this worry room.... was'nt it @NikNik ?? Thank you....
My husband is trying to make up with his sister. It's horrendous. She doesnt want a bar of him.
My family has problems but I think it might be an intelligence thing with our two families......
He blames his Mum for so much..my Mum has done so much worse but he won't listen to me.
I cannot cope with any aggression at all.
For the past 3 weeks, he's been talking constantly.
In my little world: My medication needs looking at.
I have come to terms that my Mum will never be compassionate or caring in that way but she works hard to be. For that I thank her. But he cannot see how much his Mother tries so hard to be compassionate.
28-12-2016 06:02 AM
28-12-2016 06:02 AM
28-12-2016 10:56 AM
28-12-2016 10:56 AM
Hello @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @PeppiPatty, @Former-Member, @Matt12, @OCDadhd, @Former-Member
all of us on here have been in a similar place as you at some stage that is why we are on here. We can empathise with you because of this.-- this is totally true @Former-Member xx
@PeppiPatty, wondering if your husband having sugar withdrawals
I will reply soon , got bad reflex this morning my special friend
30-12-2016 10:30 PM
30-12-2016 10:30 PM
I wish that the overwhelming sadness I feel right now would leave. I wish I had optimism for the future. I wish someone would hold me right now and reassure me it will be alright, that things will get better. I wish I wasn't me. I wish I could leave and that I could go out of 2016 with a bang, that I didn't make it to my fiftieth birthday.
no response required
31-12-2016 01:30 PM
31-12-2016 01:30 PM
Hi..I know how you feel, I was that way last week and got thorough by talking just as you are doing it helps a lot, I nearly did not make it to my 50 and glad I did…keep talking
31-12-2016 01:52 PM
31-12-2016 01:52 PM
31-12-2016 05:00 PM
31-12-2016 05:00 PM
💜💕💐 ... @Former-Member
31-12-2016 11:11 PM
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03-01-2017 04:09 PM
03-01-2017 04:09 PM
I worry that because I have not been able to contain all my trauma that I have passed it on and that it is really better if I were not to be here in the not too distant future. It takes a lot of effort for me to just keep physical pain at bay. I try all the positive and resilient approaches .. but stuff still leaks out of me. it cant have been easy for my son to witness or be close to me, and if i cant help him, then there is not sufficient purpose, link him up properly, manage my assets and go. 30 years managing pain .. sometimes I just burst out with weariness of it.
03-01-2017 05:24 PM
03-01-2017 05:24 PM
@Appleblossom - ❤️🤗
Often I feel the same and I release that here. Our adult children will always need us.........xxxxx
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