05-05-2017 11:48 PM
05-05-2017 11:48 PM
That really sucks @Appleblossom - there is no way to prepare for it - no way to know how it will be when the time comes
I am with you girl-friend - I wish I knew the right-words - but of course - I don't - because there are none
Let me sit in the rain with you - the virtual rain - and hold your hand and let you know I care and wish there were words
But then - they might get in the way
Dec/Decadian
06-05-2017 12:17 AM
06-05-2017 12:17 AM
Thought of you when I saw this picture @appleblossom, not sure why, really hope you're holding up xoxo
10-05-2017 05:04 PM
10-05-2017 05:04 PM
Thanks @Former-Member & @Owlunar
Been quiet at home but no computer. Gardening singing and doing griefwork. Decided in the end not to go to funeral. I was not really well enough and it would have been a dreadful stress. It was the best self care for me and son. I will be singing a requiem on Saturday and will offer it up for lil bro.
Gotta go to a vollie dinner. Hope computer issues are resolved and I can post a bit more, but I am alright and hope you guys are too.
Love Apple
10-05-2017 05:35 PM
10-05-2017 05:35 PM
10-05-2017 05:37 PM
10-05-2017 10:17 PM
10-05-2017 10:17 PM
Thanks @Former-Member
I am thinking of my being the old wise Pixar Owl as my role here - I don't think I am the only oldie - but who cares really - which I like is the wisdom that just grows and grows with my life
Dec
11-05-2017 12:36 AM
11-05-2017 12:36 AM
What a bad time not to have your computer - I am sorry about that
You know yourself well enough to know whether you should go to a funeral - probably better that you didn't - they can be hard work
I am sorry for your loss - I know those are pathetic words really - I wish there were better ones
But I care
Dec
11-05-2017 01:01 AM
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