okay - then you will know more what is happening @gymgirl240
Just to let you know that you can't talk about specifics of what is happening (the case or what the detec. says) but you can talk about how you are dealing with it, your feelings and struggles etc. - just giving you a heads-up as it will most likely be an emotional time and the last thing you will want is for a post to be rejected or you made to change what you write - that can add to the emotions at the time.
I am happy to guide you when the time comes though @gymgirl240 
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@gymgirl240 sorry I didn't check in with you yesterday - I was having a 'not so good day' myself 
How are you travelling today?
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SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.