rough time

[Sans911]

No, I don't get to see her much. The cats are very attached to me, and don't tolerate strangers too well. So I don't go down there to see them anymore. I'm planning to go for a week at Christmas, so on the hunt for a house sitter. I've a couple of people to consider.

[outlander]

Pick me! Ill look after them! @Sans911 if only huh!

[Former-Member]

@outlander 

I have a headache, & I'm getting tired & aching all over! 😞  I am going to rest now, & maybe sleep???

I will come back in SF if I can not sleep, ok outlander!

Love U miss U heaps!

BIGGEST HUGS!

Bella XXXXXXXXXXX

[outlander]

Goodnight @Former-Member i hope you wake up abit better tomorrow. Heat packs work well too if you have any of those.. ❣

[outlander]

@Sans911@Snowie 💜💜

Come sit here with me

[Sans911]

Logging out. Goodnight lil Sis @outlander

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[outlander]

Goodnight sis 💜 @Sans911
Was hoping those pics wouldve cleared before logging off.

[CheerBear]

Hi @outlander. I hope things are OK today.

We went out on a big adventure yesterday and the weather is rubbish here today so we're having a really quiet inside day. I needed something to keep my hands busy but something that wasn't going to take up too much head power so I've started an Outlander inspired blanket for one of our cats (I have a cat who is claiming my pink fluffy blanket and I need to kick that habit of hers). I loved your large granny square idea so I'm having a go also as I've never made a continuous granny square, though it's a more solid stitch pattern so it looks different. I've thought of you a few times while I've been working on it, and it's given me a smile.

Just wanted to share that one ❤

[Appleblossom]

Good one @CheerBear

Hope you find a sitter @Sans911

@outlander I suggested the interior castle idea more as a developing of an INTERNAL safe place, call it a cave, cocoon, "happy place" whatever.  Managing mental health issues seems to come along with managing imaginative issues.  Its a technique that you can personalise to your own situation.  Its a mental place, a place of last resort.  It also works the self care muscle ??lol... 

I had a gf at high school who always had more problems than me, inspite of a beautifully decked out bedroom.  She felt she was bribed by her mum and stepfather to accept family things that she was struggling with ... so she became ambivalent about her bedroom.  At the time I was sharing a bedroom and a bed with my little sister, so tho I was amazed at the the concept of personal space, I could see the genuineness of her predicaments.

[Snowie]

@outlandergorgeous pics sis.

Hope today has been a good one for you