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05 Sep 2024 09:42 PM
05 Sep 2024 09:42 PM
Re: Family separation
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08 Sep 2024 10:56 AM
08 Sep 2024 10:56 AM
Re: Family separation
Hi @Leeanne1 yes it's difficult l feel sorry for my granddaughter because she is going to be bought up being told lies and innuendo by my daughter and ex wife. It's a pity the people who cause us the pain can't be somehow held responsible for their actions
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08 Sep 2024 11:30 AM
08 Sep 2024 11:30 AM
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That's so true I have grandchildren and my husband has told their parents lies so I'm suffering now because I do get to see them. I think it wrong what people do to others especially your family . If you ever need to talk Im here
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08 Sep 2024 04:15 PM
08 Sep 2024 04:15 PM
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08 Sep 2024 04:19 PM
08 Sep 2024 04:19 PM
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Thanks @Leeanne1 I really appreciate your support. I have no family members to talk to about anything I lost my dad just over 2 years ago and mum hasn't spoken since the funeral and has sold the family home home in Melbourne and moved to Queensland to live with my estranged brother.
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08 Sep 2024 04:36 PM
08 Sep 2024 04:36 PM
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08 Sep 2024 10:33 PM
08 Sep 2024 10:33 PM
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It can be difficult when there is no one to talk too . That way having this safe place to come and connect with others
Feeling feel to message me any time, I have no family that I talk too .I see my mother but I don't tell her anything cause I don't want her to worry. I lost my father 4 years ago and my mother in law 6 years ago. I talk my old sister now and then.
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10 Sep 2024 11:16 PM
10 Sep 2024 11:16 PM
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Hi @Leeanne1 l appreciate your support. I am still a mess not just the issues with my kids but l still have feelings for a lady l was in a brief relationship with earlier this year we were living together and she ended it suddenly without reason and moved out. I got a house mate to share the house now she wants to move and l can't afford the rent alone..l have started looking for someone else but l can't handle the constant uncertainty with everything else l am dealing with. Maybe it's just l am a total failure in life.
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11 Sep 2024 12:37 PM
11 Sep 2024 12:37 PM
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John74 you didn't fail at all. It can be hard believe. I live in a two bedroom apartment my rent is high but I don't want to share with anyone. I struggle now and then, I worry about having a place at the end of every lease.
As for a relationship you will find someone that will want to be with you. You sound like a kind and caring person
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11 Sep 2024 02:44 PM
11 Sep 2024 02:44 PM
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Thanks for your reply. My housemate blew up at me before again. I don't need the stress l am receiving counselling from two mental health professionals regularly and will need life long care. I have another potential housemate interested hopefully it happens depending on the agent etc. I don't like being accused of things l haven't done it hurts..l very grateful that are are able to listen to me Thanks.
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