Oh dear @Molliex ... I am really sorry to hear this. Its true that the news is not good if it turns out to be an ectopic pregnancy. If its early stages though ... isn't there an option to use medication rather than the necessity for surgery?
This all seems so very unfair Molliex! And I agree .. this year really does suck. You have gone through so much, far more than anyone should ever need to.
But the important thing right now is your precious daughter ... she can be what brings you through this immense sadness and feeling of loss. It would be so easy to just slide into being blue ... but we all know you are much stronger than that. So keep going ... not just for your daughters sake .. but also for your own sake, for your husbands sake and for any future child's sake.
I hope your Drs appointment on Tuesday will provide a more definitive insight into whats happening. And you will then make whatever decision needs to be made, with the facts in mind. I guess there may be a glimmer of hope that things are not what they seem. I pray for better news than what you are expecting.
Sending a big hug and a shoulder upon which to cry .. if thats what you feel you need right now. I am only a tag away if you ever need to talk, or if I can be of any help at all. I have little of offer I know, but my desire to comfort and reassure you is strong.
Sherry 💔😔🌺
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