He sounds beautiful @Faith-and-Hope. Cat is quite fluffy also - even though she is still classed as a short-hair she has a longer coat than most short-hairs. She was really fluffy as a kitten - a bit like Toby when I got him - they were both so tiny and little balls of fluff - both I fell instantly in love with - and they me 
Yep - really wasn't thinking - hopefully not many people will get the mistake 
At least I realised quickly and it won't be up for 'outsiders' to see! @Faith-and-Hope
I'll look out for you Hon (if I am still around). Been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster the last few days and am pretty worn out. Thanks for keeping me company the last couple of hours @Faith-and-Hope - I was heading downwards really quickly there for a while but as usual you have helped beyond words 
I'll be here as much as I can for you too Hon (something to live for 
) @Faith-and-Hope - and now we have a 'shared' cat so I might need to organise some more photos for you It is actually her birthday the day I go into hospital - not good timing but I didn't have a choice - either then or another 5 weeks wait!
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