Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Former-Member]

@Determined

[Determined]

Quick check in. Everything is as well as it can be here. I am just busy and tired and not had the chance to check in.

I have browsed over other threads and thinking about all my friends here just finding it hard to concentrate and respond 😣😴

[Former-Member]

Sending gentle thoughts and a little something for you @

[Determined]

Thanks @Former-Member 

All quiet here at the moment. Darling very low at the moment. Is is part of grief or more than that? I don't know but I am concerned.

She has a pdoc tomorrow so hoping she is honest with him around how she is feeling. 

We have a leak in our roof today... that is not helping things at all. I need to get up there when it is raining and try to trace it. 

[Determined]

On the bright side I got my bike licence on the weekend. No more L 😁

Went for a short ride this afternoon between rain showers it is great. Actually felt relaxed for a brief moment until I got home to more worries about the roof. Had someone her to check it out but was not able to find anything. 

[Determined]

Something I came across a while ago similar to your pic above @Former-Member 

[Determined]

Not that I condone or will I be entering into any irresponsible riding practices lol

I have too many people relying on me to be taking risks.  Not to mention my little bike is relatively conservative anyway.  It is fun though leaning into the curves even in a responsible manner 😁

[Smc]

@Determined, curves are made for motorbikes. 🙂 Ours being a flat twin, there's only so far you can lean before the heads scrape anyway. We can leave the extreme corners to the Phillip Island racers.

Thinking of you.

[Determined]

Had a NDIS meeting re S1 yesterday, he has been approved and we have $$$ to spend in supporting him... problem is I can't see how anything on the list is going to be of any benefit to him or us. It is all so vague it is nauseating and creating more stress for me than it is going to solve. Hoping I can have a chat to his teacher to see if she can provide any suggestions based on her interactions with him as to what may be of most benefit. 

Grateful though that we have this opportunity to access additional supports for him. 

[Determined]