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Re: Self care by growing a garden

@Former-Member@Shaz51@Appleblossom@Faith-and-Hope and anyone else around...

No, my garden is currently just shabby. The only "chic" in it is the feathery one that lays an egg every day or two. 😉

I keep dreaming of the idea of getting it up to display-able standards, but not out of competitiveness. That can get bitter, and takes all the fun out of it. It's more that I'd love to be able to share the garden with other people. I turn 50 in November next year, and it would be lovely to have the garden in a state where I could have a Garden Party to celebrate. Not too sure it'll be possible.

I'm just back from the week at my parents' place. I inherited the gardening bug off them. They've been in aged care for about two years now, but despite being almost completely neglected, their garden still looks surprisingly good. A bit wild, but it's got the right kind of "bones" for that to work. (See photo...)

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I think I've mentioned before that I've put in a "plant and neglect" veggie patch in Dad's old garden. It got totally overrun with couch grass as his health and mental function went downhill, so my technique is: cover part of the couch with an 8x4' steel sheet, leave it there for a month or two, move it to another spot, dig out the light starved and leafless couch runners, soak well, plant veggies, then go away for a month or two and see what has survived next time I'm there... Not altogether succesful, but has worked better than you might expect. And it's good "therapy" for me too. 🙂 I picked heaps of Tommy Toe tomatoes last year, despite fruit fly depredations, also some healthy Golden Nugget pumpkins, and a Lebanese Zucchini that had grown into a big hard skinned squash, a bit bigger than a football. I've been planting snowpea and silverbeet/parsley seeds the last couple of visits. Not much of it has come up, but there's the possibility that it's because the soil is cold. Will find out next visit. This time I also stuck in some potatoes that had gone green. Anything I plant needs to be able to be harvested whenever. Something like broccoli that has to be picked at the right time or it shoots up to flower is no good. (If the snowpeas go too far, I can still leave the pods to fully mature and dry so that I have seed for the next year, so they pass requirements... just.)

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Looks pretty chic to me and sounds it too.  I would be happy going to a garden party there.

All that poetential waiting to happen with respect to nature, and not a mere decoration to a house or an ego.

Love it. @Smc You have a lot more space to care for.  You know the Bradley method of weeding?  Be kind to yourself.

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What's the Bradley method of weeding @Appleblossom ? Noticing a few and yanking them out while you're out there hanging the washing ? That works for me .....
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@Smc
Garden party sounds nice. People are there to see you. Others see your garden with different eyes and are probably relieved theirs is not the only plot that does not look as though a bevy of groundsmen are needed to maintain it. Spotting a chook always adds to the pleasure

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@Appleblossom, I wasn't familiar with the "Bradley Method" by name, but having looked it  up, I think it's what I know as the "least disturbance" principle, and is pretty close to what I aim to do, unless major work such as rock and rubble or deep rooted weed removal is needed. 

And thank you all for the kind comments, but the photo is my parents' front garden... mine is currently full of weeds up to mid-shins level, plus untidy accumulations of building and fencing materials. 😛 You couldn't have a party there without the danger of someone tripping and injuring themselves! Spring is coming, so I'm hoping I can do something to change that.

 

http://www.aabr.org.au/learn/what-i-bush-regeneration/general-principles/the-bradley-method/

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Lol @Faith-and-Hope my style

Lol @Smc I only learned about the Sydney sisters when someone mentioned them to me.  Its more about caring for native bushland and being economical with volunteer efforts for best long term results.

I liked that they were committed enough to have a method named after them!

Yesterday I did a wikimedia course at uni.  We were putting up wiki pages on Australian women.

Had a great time free food and oops norty me I had a small glass of red .... but but but I was on PT ...

Great people were there ... eteachers ... rare book peeps and archivists ... they say the best things in life are free.

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Frosty crackly morning.... come on spring, I'm waiting.... getting impatient... 😛

 

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Speaking of long grass... I couldn't find my shovel when I came back from my last week away to see my parents. Looked all over the yard with no success, was wondering if it might have been pilfered.

Today I was pulling up some weeds right next to where I thought I'd left the shovel... and I spotted its handle sticking up out of the grass. Smiley LOL 

That's not quite as bad as it sounds- it had fallen over sideways, but still..???

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Glad you found it when you did @Smc ..... 😊