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Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Also the lady I used to work with who has been in constant contact with her since finding out she is unwell is driving down tomorrow to visit her. Something her former so called friends never did, they didnt even call her all the times she was in hospital while they were suposedly friends, cows. And they were better placed time and $ wise than this lady is.  This lady is more of a friend then the others ever were.   And until now she only knows my darling from her visits to me at work over 10 years ago.  

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Absolutely wonderful to have that support @Determined. It must warm your heart.

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Coming in late for the group hug @Determined

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Hope you have a good weekend @Determined. Thinking of you.

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Thanks @soul
So far so good. Was up early and pit 2 loads of washing through and quick vacuum. Just arrived home now with my darling and tgough she has been anxious about comimg home (convinced herself then place would be trashed) she was pleasantly surprised and so far calm.and happy.

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Stopped at the chiro om the way home. He opened up especially and gave her a kinesiology treatment as he is confident it will help her.

Darling has to go back to the hospital after lunch tomorrow.
Hoping for a nice family time over the weekend.

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Hoping so for you @Determined.

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Lol. She couldn't help herself.
Just broke out the vacuum cleaner even though I only vacuumed before I left this morning.
At least she is happy ...

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

Pleased that things are going okay for now @Determined. Maybe the vacuum cleaning is giving her something to do and her way of showing she is useful. Try not to feel offended. 

Hoping that returning to the hospital tomorrow won't be a drama.

Re: Caring for a wife with Borderline Personality Disorder- Sequel to Diary of wife’s hospital stay - holding it together for our family.

House cleaning can be an art, and feel like an art @Determined ..... like WH and exercise it can be taken to an unbalanced state, but in and of itself it can be a healthy outlet ......

But I'm hearing you ..... 😏

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