Couldnt agree more @Natty967, breaking the textbook understanding of BPD would be so valuable and and at the end of the day there needs to be a different perspective used when working with people with BPD. Behaviour needs to be seen more as a way someone is trying to get their needs met rather than attention-seeking or manipulative. Still many changes to be made but I am hopeful that things can continue to shift over time 
Just as one last thing before I go, there is another thread on the forums that you may find helpful. The thread is called Borderline Personality Disorder Tipe for Family and Friends and you can find this discussion here.
Enjoy the rest of your night everyone, hopefully doing something relaxing
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