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25-03-2016 04:13 PM
25-03-2016 04:13 PM
My son and I
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25-03-2016 10:25 PM
25-03-2016 10:25 PM
Re: My son and I
Hi Jack,
I'm really sorry that you are going through a tough time. I was dealing with a man that had BPD and I was told to read "Stop Walking on Egg Shells." You have probably already come across it but it did help me at the time.
I hope that he will help himself soon.
xo
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25-03-2016 10:52 PM
25-03-2016 10:52 PM
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Thanks for your suggestion about "Walking on eggshells". I haven't read it yet but I've ordered it via Amazon. It's on it's way from America and should be here in a few days.
I'll let you know how it goes after I've read it.
I'm glad it helped you with your friend who had BPD by the way.
Cheers, Jack
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26-03-2016 12:39 AM
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26-03-2016 01:29 AM
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26-03-2016 09:42 AM
26-03-2016 09:42 AM
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Hi @Jack19 !
Firstly, I just want to give you a warm welcome to the forums and I am glad that you have decided to reach out for support here too, as many carers find it can be difficult to make time for their needs as they always put their loved ones first.
It sounds like you have been dealing with quite a lot over the years, from your son’s suicide attempts to his drinking and erratic behaviour. I can imagine this would be quite exhausting for you, do you have anyone supporting you through all of this? It’s totally understandable you are feeling like you’re at a “dead-end.” When people give all their energy into looking after a loved one, it can start to take a toll on their health, mentally, emotionally and physically. It’s important that you reach out for help when you need it to take some of the stress off you.
I’m sure you have been having a look around the forums, and reading different people’s stories. But I did find some really great posts that you might like reading (if you haven’t already read them!)
This post here has some similarities to your story, and this post here has some great BPD tips for family and friends. there are also some great posts here and here.
There are also many people who are going through the same thing as you, @Leigh @lep227 @Repunzel63 any thoughts for Jack?
Take care @Jack19, thank you for sharing your story
Zahlia