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18 Jun 2022 09:18 PM
18 Jun 2022 09:18 PM
Re: Starting to struggle
Yep I did and it was yummy @Jynx -
I feel switchy
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18 Jun 2022 09:27 PM
18 Jun 2022 09:27 PM
Re: Starting to struggle
@Fluttershy1 a good time to grab your Switch then and play some games, right? 😝
But in all seriousness, I imagine some grounding might help. Music, munchies, pat the bunny, focus on the feeling of skin against whatever you're using to keep warm at present 💜
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18 Jun 2022 10:21 PM
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19 Jun 2022 08:49 PM
19 Jun 2022 08:49 PM
Re: Starting to struggle
Hey @BPDSurvivor @Captain24 @Snowie @oceangirl @Shaz51 @Oaktree @Eve7 @Judi9877 - hope you are all well.
things have been abit like a roller coaster today
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19 Jun 2022 09:20 PM
19 Jun 2022 09:20 PM
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20 Jun 2022 06:48 PM
20 Jun 2022 06:48 PM
Re: Starting to struggle
@Fluttershy1 How was your day? I'm ok- just a bit tired.
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20 Jun 2022 09:01 PM
20 Jun 2022 09:01 PM
Re: Starting to struggle
Hi @Fluttershy1 !
Sorry it’s taken me so long to reply.
I was thinking of you so thought I’d pop by to see how you are going.
With my BPD, I never lashed out AT my treating team. But I did lash out TO them.
I understood that whatever was happening in me doesn’t mean I can lash out at therapists - that makes their job harder to work with you. If I wanted help, I’d have to respect and honour those helping me.
With that in mind, I was actually very much ‘liked’ by my treating team.
All in all, it worked for the good for both me and them. It was win-win.
Whatever it is, I believe there is no occasion or right for treating team to be disrespected. We are all human - it doesn’t mean they are perfect, but we need to also do the right thing.
Why I say this is because in my work, I see teachers being disrespected and abused everyday. Just because it is from students and parents, should they have the right?
I put myself in pdoc’s point of view. Just because of their job, is it right they should cop disrespect?
Sorry for this long-winded response. But your question has really means a lot to me.
Hope you have a good evening,
BPDSurvivor
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21 Jun 2022 03:45 PM
21 Jun 2022 03:45 PM
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02 Jul 2022 06:55 PM
02 Jul 2022 06:55 PM
Re: Starting to struggle
Hey @Snowie @BPDSurvivor @oceangirl @Captain24 @Jynx @Shaz51 @TAB @Historylover @Judi9877 - sorry for being so absent, I’ve had a lot on my plate
here’s a photos of stitch
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02 Jul 2022 07:12 PM
02 Jul 2022 07:12 PM
Re: Starting to struggle
Hi @Fluttershy1 !
Great to see you! Thanks for the photo of Stitch! Tooo cute! It’s soooo chill and relaxed.
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